SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Alyvia
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
When I try to come up with a profile that will make someone laugh and say hey I'd like to get to know her better, meetville messes it up. I know I hit save and then it just jumps into the abyss never to be seen again. Most of us on here are shopping, we have a budget. We come on here shopping for the best deal in our own little price and comfort zone. I read wonderful profiles of men of various ages within my comfort zone. I do wonder sometimes what in the world some are thinking. We put down our must haves, do not wants and will tolerates and hope to find someone we can stand for an evening. I did learn some very valuable information and picked myself up brushed myself off and thought .....Should I even try this again, so much effort blood sweat and tears....for what??? Turns out just to learn more, I am not as optimistic or trusting but there is still room to grow. I found out for sure what I won't tolerate and what I will. I realize if someone wants something bad enough nothing actually stops them but themselves. I found out I can love again, I might get hurt, I might a lot of things but, I won't compromise my integrity anymore on someone not willing to take chances because the don't know how to not settle. I am 48 years old. I have my up's and down's in my life everything and everyone in my life is not hunky dory. (I cut myself the other day and guess what I was bleeding. Guess what still human) I expect to find someone just like me out there and work with them trying to make sense of it all and still come out on top. With and without past that they have left behind or learned from, trying to take new steps everyday in a better direction. With or without someone!! That knows they would really rather it be with someone. That last sentence might seem somewhat confusing for some but I know there are one's out there that will get it. You have to be fine with yourself, before you can really have someone in your life. Then you have to know that is what you want and what it might take to get it to the other. If you have not sit down and had a real heart to heart with yourself how can you expect to let someone in to your heart if that is what you want so badly. I wish all of us have the opportunity to explore this and come out on top of your own little universe. Somewhere that could be enjoyable for both people - someplace to be comfortable in even if you were by yourself and wasn't on a date
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Jenna
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I give respect, loyalty, honesty and kindness and expect to get it in return. Life is to short for lies or unkindness. I still believe in romance, love, relationship and all the great things that go with it. Something very casual.
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Kayly
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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
It's not all about whats on the outside but what's on the inside that counts. I am a short, sassy, woman, and sort of the class clown. Laughter makes everything better. I agree with the saying that you should, live each day as if it were your last but enjoy life as if you were going to live for ever. I also believe you should let the people that you love, know you love them each and every day (you never know when the last chance to tell them is going to be and I don't want to miss it). I like to listen to all types of music especially live bands.I love to dance, cooking is another favorie, I like to read( I love a good mystery),I enjoy a good movie,I'm into all types of crafts. But the thing I love best of all is spending time with my friends and family. Spending time with people that love you and you love is a pleasure beyond explination.: This is just a little about me. I'm a good friend,mother,and sister. I am honest and straight forward, don't ask if you don't want to know. I don't give my opinion unless asked. Like every one else I don't like drama. That being said, we all have a certain amount of drama but, it's up to the individual as to how we handle it. I don't let mine rule me or control my life. My motto is;it is what it is, it ain't what it ain't,& don't make it something it isn't. If you have any questions please feel free to ask. NEW RULE: Please don't make this dating thing any harder than it is. There's no reason to. I am very honest about who I am. If you feel there is something I need to change ( like my personality) then I am obviously not the person for you. Don't waste your time all you are going to do is get upset.There are so many beautiful women out there that are just as lovely on the inside as well as the outside that are looking for you. Find them and treat them the way they should be treated with love and respect.There's no reason for any one to change. Thank you for letting me vent Happy fishing!!!!!! A first date should be a place of common intrest (dinner)it would have to be discussed (dancing) and a mutual decision made. It would only be fair to have each persons intrest in mind(live band,movie, walk in the park, etc...) Honestly it needs to be some place where we can talk and get to know each other. We can go from there.