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Carlena, 44
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

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About Me

Hi,I'm a 40-something woman looking for someone who is looking to meet someone cool and see where it goes. I'm a hard working, caring, intelligent, passionate giving person and I give my all in a relationship. I'm not going to jump into anything, but prefer taking time getting to know someone as I believe a lot of people just jump in without taking the time to know the person and build a friendship which I believe is a solid foundation to any relationship. I have my own business, have a home, a few hounds running around the yard and I work a bit, but my job allows for some flexibility so that I can pretty much do what I want. I'm looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy, intelligent, has a good sense of humor, confident, can dress it up in a nice suit and kick it back in cargos and a t-shirt. I love music of all kinds, love live music, and I would love to travel more as well. I'm not a clubbing person, but I do like to go out for some drinks and a good dinner just as much as being home taking in a good movie with the right person.I'm close to my family, most of them are local and have a great set of friends, just looking for the man who i feel chemistry with, is kind, interesting, mentally stimulates my mind, intrigues me and who is excited about starting that next chapter in life as I am. A first date I would think we should do something where we could sit down and get to know each other and see if there's that "connection," so probably meet for coffee or a drink and see how it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Family & Kids Sci-Fi Watching Sports
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello to all once again!! This would be my second time on this site and as I have learned in life....Anything is possible!! I'm hoping to meet a nice guy that doesn't play games!! If you feel the need to do so then please move on. I'm an independent woman that enjoys life to the fullest when ever possible. It would just be that much better if I could enjoy it with that special someone. I love the summer months, when I can spend time up at the cottage and get away from everything that makes life so serious. Life is short, as they say so why not have some fun in the process!! If your looking for someone that is cute, sexy, loyal, fun, funny and above all, honest then look no further..... You have just found her!!!Hope to hear from some of you. I do insist on seeing a pic as I have several that are all clear and up to date. Fair is fair, if you get to see me, then I want to see you. Also, I'm sure your cottage, dog, skidoo, and the sunset from your dock are all beautiful but I would rather see pictures of YOU!! It won't really matter what you have if there is no connection!! Drop me a message if interested. :)If I do not respond, pls do not be offended. I don't feel the need to respond if there is not going to be any future contact and no offense to anyone, I'm just being honest. Just one other thing I would like to say. I often wonder if people actually read these things or just look at the pictures? If you have read this far then you will know that if you message me, you must write the words "love bug" in your message. At least I know you were interested in what I had to say. Thanks and I look forward to talking to some of you. Z A nice first date for me is anywhere that we can talk and get to know each other. Your surroundings wont make a difference if the chemistry is there.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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