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Carlena, 44

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About Me

Hi,I'm a 40-something woman looking for someone who is looking to meet someone cool and see where it goes. I'm a hard working, caring, intelligent, passionate giving person and I give my all in a relationship. I'm not going to jump into anything, but prefer taking time getting to know someone as I believe a lot of people just jump in without taking the time to know the person and build a friendship which I believe is a solid foundation to any relationship. I have my own business, have a home, a few hounds running around the yard and I work a bit, but my job allows for some flexibility so that I can pretty much do what I want. I'm looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy, intelligent, has a good sense of humor, confident, can dress it up in a nice suit and kick it back in cargos and a t-shirt. I love music of all kinds, love live music, and I would love to travel more as well. I'm not a clubbing person, but I do like to go out for some drinks and a good dinner just as much as being home taking in a good movie with the right person.I'm close to my family, most of them are local and have a great set of friends, just looking for the man who i feel chemistry with, is kind, interesting, mentally stimulates my mind, intrigues me and who is excited about starting that next chapter in life as I am. A first date I would think we should do something where we could sit down and get to know each other and see if there's that "connection," so probably meet for coffee or a drink and see how it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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