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RaeOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Serial Daters Need Not Apply. On the outside I display a pleasant, friendly smile. My eyes will tell you that I am a deep, and passionate person. I have a wonderful out look on life, even though, as like many out there, I too, have had our share of struggles. I only believe that such things carve us as humans, and create the individual that we are, we are not born any certain way. Our individuality is what is the most attractive, as well as the inner beauty we all possess. There's a fit for each of us. I'm very out going, creative, idealistic, a realist. Fun loving, optimistic, and true. I enioy just about anything, and I'll try anything once.I am always looking to improve myself, schooling, health, or in my friends & colleagues. Especially as an exceptional example for my children. I am a mother through & through, and I stick to traditional, core values to create a solid foundation. I believe that love is a continuous growing experience. So any two, lucky enough to find that particular spark that can change just a small part of how we perceive love, are lucky enough to cross that threshold that we all preserve in our heart, and that is trust. I believe that communication is the key in any relationship.Although a bit of a tom boy, I clean up well, and enjoy finer things as well. But I prefer to keep it simple, because that only intensifies and separates the better things in life when you have it. I do not believe in "what if's" in the "what was". We just Do. So in the spirit of this headline, I will contribute a piece of me, and hope that with what anyone who has taken the time to read , yet, even further beyond the first part, will care to know.I have a varied background of career choices, all of which have been successful, and enjoyable. I am a published author, an inventor, and an ever evolving individual who loves to continue to learn. I have many interests that keep me quite busy, but ultimately I'd like to eventually be able to share more with someone else.The first things people usually notice about me Is my smile, my lit spirit, and optimism. Hoping to hit it off with someone,, perhaps over a cup of coffee, & great conversation - -And not ever have to be on another dating site again.... I Love the Lord, And he has been *** my life...... And continues to bless me each day.....
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VernellOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
This is the part where the wonderful description of ourselves goes hmmm? It is a somewhat daunting task to describe oneself. So here it goes, some random things about me: At my best I am spirited, curious, and diverse, at my worst stubborn and I talk too much. I try to be a better me everyday, physically, and mentally. I am very straightforward and take things as they come to me. If you ask me my opinion, I will tell you, tactfully of course, and it will be exactly that, my opinion. Feel free to disagree. I am a self described glass is half full girl. Honesty is of great importance to me. So is laughter. I don't gossip, it's unkind. I keep confidences because it is important to be trustworthy. The best compliment I ever received was that I am compassionate. The best advice ever given to me was "we regret in life more the things we don't do than the things we do". I am a people person. I love kids and old people (I know that sounds hokey, but I do!) They usually have an interesting take on things. I am inspired by nature and the outdoors. I am learning to fish because my children love fishing. Last year I learned to shoot and loved it! I am also rather bookish, reading and writing are my escape. I love movies, music, and theater. I speak fluent German. I like early mornings as much as late nights. My favorite movie is "It's a wonderful life". My current favorite song is "Sometimes I get a feeling" by Flo Rida. I will dance, although it is usually in my kitchen while cleaning. I am not a huge sports buff but will hang around for the occaisional sporting event, I am artistic and inventive and love gardening and have been know to bouts of baking a bit compulsively. Yea, there's more but if you got this far and you're still reading and curious you'll have to ask, otherwise it'd be just as well to simply publish my autobiography in this here small box for your reading pleasure and just skip the whole dating thing. :)Addendum: I am flattered by the many responses I have gotten in my first 2 days here. I don't know if it because I am brand new and it will begin to drop off after a bit, however I do try to respond to most even if I am not interested. Please don't be offended, I have spent time thinking and have a pretty good idea of what I want in someone I will choose to spend time with. Days may be long, but life is short and I see no point in wasting anyone's time. I have a few criteria that are general reasons I will not date someone- If you are closer to my kids age than mine, thank you for stopping by, as a general rule I prefer to date a bit older, next you don't have to be a rocket scientist but you have to know something about something, be able to write an intelligable note (perfection is not necessary) and hold a conversation, one that goes back and forth, don't expect me to do all the work, I am a woman that wants to be wooed, (yes, I am so worth it), I have many interests, hopefully so do you so we will have plenty to talk about and you should like to do something I do or vice versa, SO, if you have nothing to say please go to the library (is that harsh? I hope not it's just that is the appropriate place to be quiet, not on a date ) Next I want to be able to see your face, your stuff is nice, so is your dog and your home is beautiful, I know those pictures are meant to say things about you, but the picture of you should show your face clearly and should be recent, and oh yes you look great in your sunglasses but I want to see your eyes. As a sidenote, smile! You are here to find a date not get a part in the next serious guy movie. PS. Sports are ok, like I said I will watch on occasion, but if you're into sports and only sports I am not you gal either. Sports is what I see as a great excuse for you to have your time and me to have mine but I prefer not to spend a date that way. Lastly I am a 42 year old woman, with a real 42 year old woman's body. I have had 2 children so let's be real. I have curves, some in the right places and some not so much. I will not ask you if I look fat in this outfit, I am generally pretty comfortable in my own skin, but if physical perfection is important to you then you need to hop off the bus gus. Oh yea, and anything too forward or freaky fetish stuff should be saved. Sex is important in relationships, note: in relationships, not in a weird first hi I'm so-n-so note. Thank you for you patience, please carry on4 month Update: I no longer try to respond to most, it's too much to do, I am a busy girl. It gets exhausting to keep explaining things over and over. Convincing someone, no, really you're not my type. Sorry. Not trying to be mean...so If I don't respond you haven't caught my intrest or you don't meet the criteria. It is hard to reject someone, no one wants to do that. So yea, sometimes it is easier to say nothing. Some of you write the nicest things too, which makes it even harder. But that is just how it is, sometimes we just don't feel it. So if I don't respond, thank you for your note, I am always flattered. This is not an easy way to meet someone, feels unnatural and backwards. Also if you ask for my number and I give it to you, call me, don't text me. If the phone conversation goes ok then maybe we can text. Finally, I do this all on my phone so I cannot do the online chat thing, so don't be offended when I don't respond. ;) This first date box is kinda silly, because we all just want to look at a person face to face, see if they are still attractive (do they really look like the picture that attracted you) find out if there is mutual chemistry and does this individual have anything of interest to contribute or is sitting with them a tortuous strained affair. It's anyone's guess folks, this is afterall internet dating...so whatever it takes to relax and be yourself
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NorahOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am a medical profesional and I love my job. I have a 13 year old son that means the world to me and he is my first and foremost concern right now. I love spending time with him. There is something missing in my life and that is an honest, loving and caring man to be by my side. I am looking for a helpmate, not another person to take care of. I want to be there for you and you be there for me. I am looking for someone that is willing and capable of accepting my son as his own. I need someone that is able to be supportive of him as well. If you have children, that is fine and I will accept them as mine as well. Family is something that is very important to me. I like all kinds of music, with the acception of some kinds of heavy metal and some rap. I grew up in a family where learning music was important. I enjoy the outdoors and staying indoors as well. I enjoy taking walks, camping, fishing, bonfires and spending time with those I love and care about. I like chilling out and watching movies, playing cards and board games. I am a pretty good cook and do enjoy it. I just don't like all the dirty dishes it creates afterwards. LOL. As you can probably tell from my pictures, I enjoy humor. I enjoy life and what it has to offer. I would love to get out and have fun a little more often, but I also have responsibilities with work and my son. I do also have a serious side. If you get to know me, you will see both.I have been trying to improve my health with diet and have started working out. My son has helped me in that department. I want to see my son grown and to see my future grand babies some day, if that happens. If you are just looking for quick short relationship, are a serial dater or just a player, please pass me by. If you are interested, please feel free to leave me a message. Have a wonderful day and I wish you luck in your search. Going out to dinner, meeting at a cafe or possibly doing something fun in a public place. Somewhere that we can talk and get to know one another better.