SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Elizabeth
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I grew up in small towns, and am attracted to having some *wiggle*-room, but i also appreciate being close to the city, but far enough away so i can go back to my little sanctuary...I like..; nights, a yummy cuppa joe, cooking breakfast together, mornings, yoga & pilates, nutrition, giving and receiving massages, touch, new experiences and learning something fun and exciting like a class working on a degree or personal enrichment. I would love to... I want to go everywhere, but those just came to me. Learn to play the guitar (I have one, just need now to take some lessons). Metal smithing would be cool too. Fly fish more. Learn to kayak. Be mortgage free and self-sufficient.. the dream! I do...Watch my mouth.. there's nothing trashier than to hear a woman swear like a sailor (such a turn off for us, too). I don't have addictions to alcohol, don't spend my time in the bars, and don't take drugs of any kind. So if you drink a lot or take drugs or have any other strange addictions, then we're probably not a good match. I thrive on being sober, love the feeling. And it's not because I'm better than anyone else, but I do have certain expectations of myself and it's what I have chosen not to have in my life. And, I'm looking for the same in my friends and love. Update: Yes, I do drink socially, but you won't find me hanging around the bars. I've been getting into wine-making so maybe we can share a glass or three =) And if you don't drink, that's fine too. I wont pressure you...much ;) I am...Pretty well balanced, and grounded. Logical. But, dreamy at times. I prefer calmness and harmony in my life, try to avoid conflicts and try to look at things from an outward perspective. Everyone has their own story and I value that. It is how we've overcome our failures and past that has made us. I believe you are what you think. I choose happiness =) I try to keep my distance from those who are quick to anger or who are just generally unhappy with their life and situation. Another issue that seems to need attention is the anxiety and baggage out there. If you have your therapist on speed dial, it's likely we won't be a match. I'm not a hater, but only happy, positive people please.Not...Defined by politics. I know some people take them very personally, but honestly they're not for me. Religion and Politics are two things I don't delve deeply into. I'm not religious, and I'm not politcal, meaning they don't define me. I am spiritual... nature is my church, the earth is my temple. I'm content with my views and will share them with you if you're curious :)I don't follow the latest fashion designs, labels, pretty low-key and low maintenance. I'm no drama mama, just fun and good times. Life is too short to be grumpy and jealous.Movies and Music...Anything with a message. Action adventure, comedies are good, not a fan of TV. I have one, but don't have cable-- Just a colossal waste of time in my opinion. But, love going to the movies on date night. My music tastes are off the charts.. it varies. If it's good music, I'll listen to it. If it evokes feeling or emotion, usually listen to that too. Although I listen to some rock, I've been listening to Celtic, Spa & Meditation, trail songs, anything different than the mainstream norm.Also, I see a lot of very general, "i like to hike, bike, climb, ski and i love sports" That's great, I like adventure and activity, too, but what is it that sets you apart from the other person? Do you have a talent or special interest or experience to share? I'll share mine with you. I won't even make you ask :) For 10 years, I operated a retail nursery greenhouse on the western slope, and I like to think I have a pretty green thumb, a business mind and a strong connection with horticulture and the land. I would actually get back into it with the ideal partner, but never alone again. I like the idea of homesteading. Holistic arts and healing impress me more than western medicine. If you also take care of yourself, and have a healthy mind and body, and you think we might have something in common, I would love to hear from you =) Somewhere we can get to know each other, like a festival or hike... then ice cream or something cool and yummy afterward. Or let's try a craft beer at a local microbrewery. Please no coffee dates ---what a lackluster way to meet someone. I am ultimately seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship, not necessarily marriage, but just you and I, to share experiences together, travel, new culinary delights and all things fun in life. So, if you like what you see, and you have passion for life, and desire to know more about other cultures, travel and adventures, chat me up and say hello! At the very least, we'd have a travel partner ;)Good Luck to you =)reclaim your ***
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Martin
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
We are all looking for that one person that brings out the best in each of us - I am that woman. I'm smart, positive, caring, kind, warm, giving, and some even think I'm funny. I like to smile and love to laugh! I don't need somebody, but want somebody to share those special moments that make our lives great! Looking for that special person to complement my life, plain and simple. I enjoy traveling and experiencing new things. I'm a kid at heart and enjoy simple fun, too. I'm very easy going for a woman, but I am not perfect - big hint - none of us are, but I try to be a good person and treat others with respect. Someone once explained to me that in order to find the right person, you need to test-drive people like you test drive a car. You have to be open to possibilities and take a chance with someone because it could be the best decision you'll ever make. Life is too short not to enjoy it!
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Ellyn
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
My hobbies at this time include volunteering through work and church to help organizations and people in need as well as my kids. I like to try lots of new things, who knows I just might find another hobby or interest to add to the rest. I am on the board for an animal foster which I enjoy very much. I have passion for helping others- people and animals. My goals are to continue to be a successful parent raising my kids so that they will become successful adults. I also continue to look for ways to improve my life and help others. I would love to find someone that likes to do outdoor things such as going to the park, sitting at the lake or listening to an outdoor concert. I would like to find a walking buddy also, someone to motivate and make the walks a little more interesting. I attend church on a weekly basis and enjoy it very much although lately I haven't been the best at making it. God is an important part of my life and I would like to find someone that feels the same. I am not a bible pusher but I do very much believe. I also have three tattoos, all with a special meaning. I am a very caring and giving person and would love to find the same. I am a very loyal, faithful, honest person and would expect the same back...no games. Let me just say this be honest tell me what you want. Treat a lady like a queen and you shall be treated like a king. Don't objectify us as a sex object you and use and lie to. I do have tattoos but they are tasteful and have meaning. If that bothers you I'm sorry but they are a part of me and I will probably get a couple more over time. I enjoy many types of music, pop/rock, r&b, country. I'm perfectly imperfect and created by GOD My first date..... I would like to find a respectful, fun guy and maybe go to dinner so that we can get to know each other, from there if the weather allows we could go for a walk or sit by a lake and visit. I am terrible at bowling but that can also be fun, makes you come out of your shell a little! I like movies, however I don't think they are the best for a first date because you can not talk and get to know each other. I think communication is very important for a successful relationship or friendship. If you know you are not interested after the first date just say so. I respect a person for being honest and upfront. I would ask that if you are not attracted to me or you are not looking for a long term relationship that you be honest and just tell me I will respect you for that. If you are unsure of what you want then we may not be a match at this time.