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Ellyn, 42
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

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About Me

My hobbies at this time include volunteering through work and church to help organizations and people in need as well as my kids. I like to try lots of new things, who knows I just might find another hobby or interest to add to the rest. I am on the board for an animal foster which I enjoy very much. I have passion for helping others- people and animals. My goals are to continue to be a successful parent raising my kids so that they will become successful adults. I also continue to look for ways to improve my life and help others. I would love to find someone that likes to do outdoor things such as going to the park, sitting at the lake or listening to an outdoor concert. I would like to find a walking buddy also, someone to motivate and make the walks a little more interesting. I attend church on a weekly basis and enjoy it very much although lately I haven't been the best at making it. God is an important part of my life and I would like to find someone that feels the same. I am not a bible pusher but I do very much believe. I also have three tattoos, all with a special meaning. I am a very caring and giving person and would love to find the same. I am a very loyal, faithful, honest person and would expect the same back...no games. Let me just say this be honest tell me what you want. Treat a lady like a queen and you shall be treated like a king. Don't objectify us as a sex object you and use and lie to. I do have tattoos but they are tasteful and have meaning. If that bothers you I'm sorry but they are a part of me and I will probably get a couple more over time. I enjoy many types of music, pop/rock, r&b, country. I'm perfectly imperfect and created by GOD My first date..... I would like to find a respectful, fun guy and maybe go to dinner so that we can get to know each other, from there if the weather allows we could go for a walk or sit by a lake and visit. I am terrible at bowling but that can also be fun, makes you come out of your shell a little! I like movies, however I don't think they are the best for a first date because you can not talk and get to know each other. I think communication is very important for a successful relationship or friendship. If you know you are not interested after the first date just say so. I respect a person for being honest and upfront. I would ask that if you are not attracted to me or you are not looking for a long term relationship that you be honest and just tell me I will respect you for that. If you are unsure of what you want then we may not be a match at this time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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