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Rae, 44

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About Me

Serial Daters Need Not Apply. On the outside I display a pleasant, friendly smile. My eyes will tell you that I am a deep, and passionate person. I have a wonderful out look on life, even though, as like many out there, I too, have had our share of struggles. I only believe that such things carve us as humans, and create the individual that we are, we are not born any certain way. Our individuality is what is the most attractive, as well as the inner beauty we all possess. There's a fit for each of us. I'm very out going, creative, idealistic, a realist. Fun loving, optimistic, and true. I enioy just about anything, and I'll try anything once.I am always looking to improve myself, schooling, health, or in my friends & colleagues. Especially as an exceptional example for my children. I am a mother through & through, and I stick to traditional, core values to create a solid foundation. I believe that love is a continuous growing experience. So any two, lucky enough to find that particular spark that can change just a small part of how we perceive love, are lucky enough to cross that threshold that we all preserve in our heart, and that is trust. I believe that communication is the key in any relationship.Although a bit of a tom boy, I clean up well, and enjoy finer things as well. But I prefer to keep it simple, because that only intensifies and separates the better things in life when you have it. I do not believe in "what if's" in the "what was". We just Do. So in the spirit of this headline, I will contribute a piece of me, and hope that with what anyone who has taken the time to read , yet, even further beyond the first part, will care to know.I have a varied background of career choices, all of which have been successful, and enjoyable. I am a published author, an inventor, and an ever evolving individual who loves to continue to learn. I have many interests that keep me quite busy, but ultimately I'd like to eventually be able to share more with someone else.The first things people usually notice about me Is my smile, my lit spirit, and optimism. Hoping to hit it off with someone,, perhaps over a cup of coffee, & great conversation - -And not ever have to be on another dating site again.... I Love the Lord, And he has been *** my life...... And continues to bless me each day.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Iluminada

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a single mom of a teenage boy. I enjoy hockey, football, boating/skiing, anything in the sun. Looking for someone that just wants to have fun and enjoy each others company.

  • Jaquelyn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I never get bored.Life is what you make it. We can do anything we set our minds to do... and I do every time :)I love to see people pursue their passions and follow their dreams. I totally support the dreams and interests of the people I love.I admire a man who goes for it! And it's a turn on when a man does anything he's passionate about.I'm very affectionate and playful and look for the same in a man. I can play like a girl and I know when to be a woman and how to be a lady.As much as I enjoy quality time together in a relationship, I do enjoy and know how important individual time is as well – whether it's alone time or time spent with friends, family, passions, hobbies, other interests, to decompress, recharge, etc.I love to watch a man cook who enjoys cooking. I find it sexy. Just something about it that I can't explain.And I like a little food fight, feeding each other, etc :)Anything musical, artistic, original, unique, handmade/handbuilt, or anything creative - especially by a man's hands and/or creative mind - will get me every time :)I tend to be very spontaneous and I love surprises - giving and receiving - and the simpler the better. The little things go over big with me :)One of my favorite things to do is learn something new and try new things, places, foods, etc. Show me something new :)Been an entrepreneur for most of my adult life, and helped other start ups, of both for-profit & non-profit projects - it's one of my passions.Until I moved here in Jan. ***, I did creative counseling and my "Dream Chaser" workshops in community centers where I used to live - mostly working with teens & adults - encouraging and helping them pursue their passions, their unique gifts/talents, and follow their dreams. I absolutely loved it! I'm working on a similar project here.Candid photography is another passion of mine. I capture candid spontaneous shots of real life as it happens. Others photograph people "posing" but I love to capture people living, loving, playing, having good times!Life here has been amazing! I love my life and I'd love to share it with someone. But I’m in no rush. And I won’t settle for less than what we both want :)I'm not looking for perfection. Perfection is boring. I want passion... passion for each other and passion for life and in the things we do.While I definitely have an appreciation for all that life offers, one of the most important things I've learned in life is that money and *meaningless* material things are not what make me happy. Of course, I do live right across the street from the beach. I love it! My place fits perfectly in my life right now. A big house just doesn't appeal to me at this time, being single, with no kids at home. And a "house" doesn't feel like a "home" to me unless shared with people I love.NOTE: If you message me and I don't respond, it could just simply be bad timing. I may be getting to know someone at the moment and want to see how things go. Or it could be no attraction - and it's not any easier to send than it is to receive such a reply. I'm sure you understand and agree we have no control over who we're attracted to. Right? :) I've found that it's best to meet in person soon to see if there's a mutual chemistry, first, then go from there.I can have fun doing anything with the right person. The place or activity isn't as important as the person I'm sharing it with :)

  • Johnette

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy being me, I don't put on an act.. I think i am fun to be around,I do have 1 child, well hes grown, he will be 21 in June. He has made me very proud of him. I have a lot of great friends. I love to make people smile, its so easy to make someones day. It's so easy to be myself!!I really would love to know what happen to men and woman wanting to get to know each otherI am looking for someone REAL...Life is to short for games... Come on now if i tell you what i want you to do then it will be to easy :)

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