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Arnetta, 45
United States, Indiana, Fortville

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I am a easy going fun loving person with lots of love to give. I have been single for 8 years now (my choice) and have had lots of time to heal and grow. Now i am ready!!! :)I like all kinds of music ( Jack FM is my fav radio station) My kids are all moved out and I am loving life...have no responsibilities and live like a teenager, lollooking for someone who has it all together both financially and emotionally and wants to find his soulmate...I am a strong and independent woman but with a soft heart and touch... Looking for a tall handsome man who likes to be active and has lots of energy...I don't do drugs but i do smoke pot on a regular basis, I like to dress casual and dressing up for me is jeans and a nice top. Oh though as am getting older the more I appreciate "the finer things in life" ;)If I had the space and the money I would love to have a drum kit and a race car!...am a bit of a tom boy...lolMy main hobby now a days is spirituality, I believe in God and Jesus, but also know there is so much more to it all. I don't like any organized religion, as I find that people with their greed for money and power has corrupted it all!... I also believe in other spiritual stuff, I have many friends that are mediums and I like to play around with taro cards, pendulum's and Runes etc. I "Smudge" my home and self frequently, and I also meditate and believe in reincarnation, and karma! As you can see am a very honest person and will tell it as it is...honesty and consistent communication is very important to me! I do not believe in casual sex and want to really get to know you before going there, I think we should have fun, play and laugh, and I also want to see how you react in different situations, I want to meet your friends and family before going to the next step.(in my last relationship we went to fast and I did not have a chance to really get to know this person before we got married/moved inn together, turns out he was very abusive and had I taken the time to really study him and spoken to friends and family first, I could have ended it much sooner.) I have experienced that sex changes how you feel for a person and I would like to have those feelings even without the sex. Good sex is a bonus but lets face it, not the most important part of a long term relationship! I want to be able to sit in our rocking chair and talk all night long, even when we are too old to "get it on" Friends first lovers second!. lol...if this appeals to you, great! can't wait to hear from you, otherwise good luck fishing! Love and Light...PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF:-you still live at home or with "booty call"-you do not have a good job or car-you just came out of a relationship (less than 6 mon)-you have small children living with you or wanting children (am sorry but been there done that, I want all your attention now)-you have mental problems or addictions-you see life with the "half empty glass" life is way to short to spend it with negative people!!-your NOT wanting a long term relationship or prefer "just dating" (am not getting any younger, and want to find someone to grow old with)-your expecting to get laid after ***dates, I really want to get to know you before I share my self that way-and last but not least, your NOT open minded...one of my favourite quotes: “It’s easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams… that is being naked.” - Rob Bell Impress me! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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