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About Me

Helllo, im coming out of a 22 plus year marriage,only been divorsed on paper since Nov,***,,,,,,but hes been out of the home for almost 2 years ! I have three wonderful kids whom 2 live at home, and 1 lives with his dad and they are my world! Just want to get out and have some fun, aldult conversation and hofully one day find my best friend and partner for life! Im a very honest, caring, hate liers, im not a girly girl, not fancy, little shy around crowds, i love to laugh and have fun! I love to go to the movies and dine out! lol! I love to go for walks, hold hands and just snuggle up on the couch and watch a movie! I like things organized, my friends call me a neat freak! This on site dating is kinda getting old... so i thought i would give it another shot!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Meagan

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey there! Not sure if this is the place to really find my someone special, but it is worth a try. I truly am looking to find someone to build a relationship with. I'm not getting any younger and I'm tired of dating. If I meet someone and there is chemistry and attraction there, I would like to see where it goes. I'm not the type of girl who goes out with this guy and that guy. If I really like someone, I only want to spend time with that person. With that being said...u need to have time to explore if there could be something there. Also, you need to be emotionally ready for this. I am more than ready and I know what I want, do u? About me... I enjoy summer and fall. Sounds cliche, but I enjoy going for walks, and spending time at the beach. Going out and about on the town, listening to live bands, cuddling on the sofa watching a movie and enjoying a glass of wine. I am an affectionate woman when I am into someone. You need to be as well. I like different types of music, such as the 80's, naturally lol. Anything from Rihanna, Pit Bull, pretty much anything on 104.3 and 106.5. Not really into country, especially the twangy type :/ I have 2 wonderful children who are my heart and soul. I have ***custody of them. I have room in my life to share it with the right guy...if this sounds like u...then say hello. Thank u for reading my profile! Someplace public where we can actually hear one another!

  • Tikva

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm new to dating -after a relationship of 19 years.Hopefully You know how to find your own happiness and fulfillment. Im not here to make you complete- I'm here to add to your joy in life. I have zero tolerance for harmful drugs, tobacco, liars, cheaters. Been through it all and never going back. I'm not into head games. I am genuine, open, intelligent, very caring, social, adaptable, camping- opera , family oriented, good mother, well rounded woman...and much more. Im a Gemini.... true to my sign. I'm a real woman with real features, the only fake deal about me is my hair color and my eyelashes. I care about myself in body and mind and soul. I really prefer a man who has faith - in God's word, life, healthy love and in himself. Believes in value and sanctity of a marriage.Doesn't need to rush into anything yet knows inportance of communication and effort.Someone kind, selfless, confident, secure and accepting. Hopefully a man who understands a woman needs love to be nurturing and supportive. Maybe you're someone who's been around through many challenges and made mistakes but learned from them to improve. I do the best I can with what I have, I love what I do, and it gives me freedom to be available for my children. I'm not high maintenance- wish I could be - but didn't come from a privileged life. Although I enjoy quality when I get it. I'm easily pleased and appreciate the little things. Im fairly frugal - as in smart shopping and purchasing. I tip well if deserved because people need that and I know what goes around comes around. Share what you have with those in need. Don't ask me to drive far because I get about 10mpg... I dont take things for granted and i dont feel entitled. Im grateful for what I do have. Like I said- I deal with what I'm blessed with , or not blessed with. I like being near a big city but I prefer country living. And I would definitely be up for moving somewhere greener and cooler someday! (Not for a few years though..kids are in good schools right now). Although I do enjoy looking at Superstition mountains every day. So yes-.I will cry when watching movies...or documentaries. Just roll with it ;-)I'm very empathetic. Love nature and being in fresh clean air surrounded by greenery and life.I have dogs - yes plural! They are a big part of our family and dear to our hearts. They are well behaved and a lot of fun and all different. We also have cats. So if you have pet allergies real bad then you probably can't be a match for me. We have 5 chickens and I love getting fresh eggs every day. Cant beat it!I have two children. I have them all the time right now. So I want a positive healthy ( male) role model for them. Its very important to me. You don't have to be their whole father role, just a good example of a solid positive person. If I haven't scared you off then great! I very much desire to travel the world. Never have been much of anywhere. Except in my dreams. If you're heavily into sports than I may not be for you. I enioy going to games and events however I'm not into watching them on tv. I don't mind if you do that though I'm ok with supporting your interests. I don't watch tv much anymore unless I'm sick. Too busy to have the time. Gotta love the tivo though! I am a very good cook. I would like a man who can rock the bbq!! Definitely casual and in a spot where we can make it short in case we don't click. Love Starbucks. .yeah I know its the most cliche. .. .but I have my gold card and its the best!If we spark then lets go to Disneyland! ...ok..maybe not feasible but you get my point..I'm up for trying pretty much anything / any place. Unless its a casino. ..not my thingThanks for reading. If you got this far - congratulations!!

  • Santina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I love my life and would like to share it with a man I care about and connect with but, we have to meet first! Ultimately I am looking for someone who enjoys life and is looking for a passionate and enthusiastic partner and best friend to spend it with but, you gotta start somewhere so here I am.I am an entirely authentic, happy, intelligent, honest, and positive, redhead looking for a nice guy. I love living on this beautiful island of ours and I like to discover new things to do. Camping, biking, and hiking top my list of summer activities (actually anything outside works). I enjoy staying healthyand active. Mostly so I can keep my body feeling as young as my mind does. I had my own gardening biz for ten years and now horticulture and agriculture still take up a big space in my heart. I have a community allotment garden plot I love and I work with a local urban farm that keeps me involved in my passion. I gain the most inspiration for my photos and paintings from the natural world. My dream is to one day operate an organic farm and it would be great to share it with my partner.I like lots of different music (not usually country or rap but, there are exceptions). I love to see concerts and live bands and I can also really enjoy a cozy night at home on the couch watching a movie/PBS or reading a book. Friends say I'm down-to-earth, funny, passionate, easy-going, honest, sincere and considerate. I'm not into headgames or drama. I am confident without being arrogant. I am not perfect and I don't imagine you are either, just human. :) Mostly I just try not to take myself too seriously. Life is short, play safe and have fun!! I am a lot of fun to hang out with (I've been told) and I definitely feel younger than my actual age. Why not try some ginger in your life? HAHA Let's go for a coffee/tea (I know boring but, at least a good place to start unless you have another suggestion of course) and check out a beach in town? Something casual, no pressure, wouldn't even call it a date if you don't want to. Might even end up making a new friend if nothing else. First step: if you think we might get along, message me. (Not a fan of the *** feature, sorry.) Enjoy the fishing!

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