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I am a happy person by nature. I like to enjoy life and avoid drama. I enjoy cooking and baking and my down time is often spent reading. I am also a sport nut and love Jayhawk basketball (March Madness is my favorite time of year) and NFL football and NCAA football. I am told I have a great sense of humor- I like to make people laugh. I am a kind, sincere, compassionate, affectionate person and enjoy smiling at strangers just in the hopes it might brighten their day. I enjoy spending time with my family. I like the outdoors- boating and camping are some of my favorite activities. I have 4 children 16, twins 14 and my youngest is 9 and they keep me very busy and are the light of my life (Update: My oldest 3 children are bi-racial so if you have a problem with that please stop reading now. I am tired of chatting with men that claim to be nice only to have them completely lose interest once that find that out. A judgmental man is the last thing I am looking for!). I attend church weekly and my faith is very important to me. I believe God has a plan for everyone and He is with me in this journey to find Mr. Right.I'd like to find Mr. Right...someone that can prove to me that chivalry is not dead. That special guy that I know I am truly safe with in all aspects- physically, spiritually and emotionally. That person that allows me to be me and loves me because I am me. Someone that also enjoys the simple things in life. Negativity is a huge turnoff to me. I believe that no matter how dark any given day is there is something positive that can be found in it. I'd like to find someone that I can talk to about a huge variety of topics. I'd like that someone special that would enjoy spending time with me sitting in the stands as I cheer on my children in their various sporting events. I'd like to sit beside him and cheer his children on too. I'd like to find a man of strong christian faith, someone that knows how to truly love another person because he lives his life by the example set my Jesus. All of the things I described above is what I have to offer and are how I will treat Mr. Right when I finally meet him!!!I am not desperate for a man and am completely content being single. I am 5'11" I realize I am immediately discounting some very fine men because of their height and for that I am sorry but I know what I want and I know what I like. Also, if you are looking for a woman interested in casual sex you are not going to find that in me so please look elsewhere for that!UPDATE: Guys- when a profile says that I "avoid drama" please take that to heart. If you have a habit of being overly dramatic, display stalkerish type behavior, are needy and need constant reassurance then I am NOT interested so please don't waste my time! A nice dinner would be great because every lady likes to get dressed up but also a simple walk and a nice picnic. Even a game of mini golf or a go-cart race...it just doesn't matter as long as he is a gentleman.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I enjoy being with friends, but also enjoy quiet time. I'm down to earth, loyal, intelligent, playful with a sense of humor but I can also be shy. I also have a huge soft spot in my heart for animals. I’m looking for a long term relationship with emotional and physical chemistry. I'm at a good place in my life and have a lot to offer. Among other things, I am financially stable, educated, well-read and have no baggage or tie- I'm looking for a college educated professional. I would like to find someone with whom I have chemistry and passion and I can also feel comfortable around, a best friend who is trustworthy, loyal, caring, fun, adventurous, and communicative. I am looking to meet a great guy that has evolved through the years and is ready for something real and fun and to embark on a journey together. Most importantly, I’m looking for someone who is ready for commitment and a family. I have had some amazing relationships and feel so blessed but now I am ready to find my partner in life! My favorite things: My 2 dogs! TV..Seinfeld, 48hr Mystery, Law & Order, Modern Family. Music..LOVE 80'S hits. Food..Anything HOT & SPICY. For fun, i enjoy reading...cooking...going to the gym...going shopping....staying in watching a movie....sitting close together and trying to keep my hands off you....and failling! Meet for a drink somewhere in the city

  • Madelyn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi there, well I figured I should re-write some of this since things have not been working out very well. So here I go; I would like only real men to message me!!! I don't want to be messaging for months, then texting for months to then just go out on one date and realize that we don't have any chemistry. I am a very young 38 year old woman but I don't want to be wasting my time or yours. I'm looking to date and if something clicks, great!!! If it doesn't click, lesson learned. I like to have fun where ever I am, just being silly and laughing. I like hanging out with my friends and family. I enjoy camping, hiking and really anything outdoors. I pretty much like all kinds of music. Drinks.

  • Wilda

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ATTN: I am 45 years old NOT 40, this stupid site will not allow me to change this! It appears all you guys would rather sleep, watch tv or do anything other than talk to a woman; so WHY ARE YOU ON HERE THEN??? I am not looking to date my grandfather, looking for someone active, who wants to have fun, and who enjoys the initial "Chase" in starting up a relationship; yes, I do enjoy relaxing too, and being "laid back", but not when it comes to the "pursuit" of a relationship, if your not going to put forth any kind of effort at this point, doesn't look too promising for you down the road...I am willing to provide you all the attention you require and I would expect the same in return...Seeking a Male Caucasian ***, NON SMOKER, who is SINGLE and NOT in a RELATIONSHIP OF ANY KIND. Looking for someone who wants to spend time together and enjoy each other's company. I am NOT into disrespectful, abusive, rude behavior or negative attitudes, NO game playing, cheating or lying and seek a man who feels the same. I am pretty laid back and casual, I have a good sense of humor and enjoy laughing and having a good time minus the aid of alcohol and drugs. Definitely NOT seeking a "hook up" or not interested in a sex chat/messaging relationship at all. Thank you.PS: If your profile consists of a pic with you wearing sunglasses and you are going to refuse to provide me a pic w/o them, please do not even bother messaging me, I love seeing a man's eyes as I find this one of his most sexiest traits!

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