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Not the best pic, I look super tall though, I'll go with it lol.I have to say I have no expectations beyond meeting new friends/cool people to hang out with. If we can chat on here, have more than a few things in common, then most likely we're good. I've always been one of the guys, so it's a no pressure thing. Anything past that, if it works for both, fantastic! Or I completely lied there without realizing it. I am finding I do want the real thing; I want someone to grow old with. I need someone who can break me out of my shell and make me go on adventures, and continue those adventures into our 90s. I do have standards of course, whoever I am going to make time for has got to be the type of man I want my son to grow to be. I'm a mom first and foremost. And it is absolute full time. The only time I have alone is when I'm driving to and from work. So if that bugs you, I'd like to say kick rocks, but *** will say good luck in your search lol. He is a full-on energetic, intelligent, goofy little boy. What you'll find me doing most of my free time-- anything and everything I can to make his life the best. I'm a contradiction. Intelligent, but can be so stinkin' stupid at times I drive myself crazy lol. Hard working, yet lazy. I say I'm pretty frickin' awesome, yet I'm a huge dork. I don't always come up with the most witty things, but I thoroughly enjoy being around sarcastic people. I'm the quiet person, yet all my best friends are the loud mouths and can bring it out in me. I'm the one my friends turn to when they need to be grounded. On the flip side I can get pretty crazy when I open up. I can get raging pissed (when driving), yet I don't appreciate violence.I am nice, to a fault. I have a heart of gold which can sometimes lead to naivety as I want to see the good in every person, and give too many chances, which then leads to people trying to take advantage of me. Their loss. I feel deeply and can fall for someone far too easily. I'm compassionate, sincere, fun, loyal, funny, and reliable (however a little late, but I will be there! :D). Love to laugh, love, and be loved, no contradictions there. :)Message me if: You're good with kids, of course. You're not a crackhead, or on an ego trip. You aren't crazy, and I don't sound nuts. :). You're at least respectful, responsible and funny. If you're looking for a cool girl to hang out with, but you must have patience as I don't have a whole lot of time. I am trying to change that, and do my best to make it happen to meet up. :).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-45

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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  • Meghann

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    It is very important to me to find someone who, in most aspects, has the same ideals, beliefs, morals, and outlook on life as I do. That is obviously something we'll have to talk first to find out if we think alike ;)I only have an AS, but I am not stupid. I do not believe that a piece of paper defines our level of intelligence. I have met people with doctorates who are dumb as a box of rocks, and some of the most intelligent people I know are high school dropouts. Like a zombie, brains are important to me. But "telling" me how smart you are weighs about as much as a feather on the grand scale of things. REALLY bad grammar/spelling is also pretty annoying ;)I think humor is one of the most important things in life. Even on my worst days, I still find one thing to laugh about at some point. So, I am seeking a funny guy... not a funny looking guy... but a guy who is funny. If you make me laugh without trying to hard, I actually don't care if you are funny looking, too.Have a job. Have a car. Don't live with your parent(s) unless it is extremely temporary and under some dire circumstances. Please don't still be in school unless you do it on top of working full time. If you have a grower's card and are "self-employed," I'm also not interested. I am not a fan of excessive hair. I didn't like beards before they were trendy, and I still don't like them. Back hair is a major offense. Hey, I bet you don't like chicks with armpit and leg hair, am I right?I have a lot of tattoos, like 20+. If you don't like tattoos on women, I am not the droid you are looking for. Also, it is not essential, but if you have tattoos yourself, that is a huge plus for me. Again, it's not a requirement, just a preference.I just had a major back surgery eight weeks ago, so while I am generally very active and an avid runner, I am on some serious restrictions right now. Please be understanding that I'm healing and won't be able to go mountain climbing with you until at least Spring ;-) Lunch or an after-work drink or something creative yet short... first date should be like 2 hours max (I read somewhere that long first dates tend to make people not crave a 2nd date)

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