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Jude, 39
United States, Indiana, Fishers

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About Me

While I love to be in the center of the party scene, I'm past the stage of going out every night. People are always surprised when I tell them my age - I don't look or act it. My passion is travel and I love long weekends on a Caribbean island in the middle of winter. (Gotta love those trips to Vegas too!) When I'm not traveling, I enjoy volunteering with community and regional organizations, reading, theatre, wine tastings, Orioles and Ravens games, watching TV, social sports leagues, and game nights with friends.Family and friends are very important to me. I have a great set of friends that I love hanging out with and would love to include my significant other in that group. If I had to choose between dressing up and dressing down, I'd choose up. I'm a girly girl and any guy who has an issue with my taking time to pretty myself up for a night out definitely wouldn't appreciate me. And on the other hand, I can and will kick your butt at paintball any day of the week :)I'm looking for someone who is well-rounded and dynamic, basically up for anything, and spontaneity is a must. Must love to travel often (please have a passport!), have a passion for life, like animals, be willing to try anything once, and be refined, confident and ambitious. A huge plus in my book is old fashioned good manners. I should mention that two deal breakers for me are smokers and someone with children (sorry dads - I love kids but I want to be selfish right now and be my man's top priority). Best of luck in your search and hope to hear from you soon! Every first date is unique - there's no good answer to this question.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance American English Indian Ice Hockey Volleyball
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