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Lydia, 38

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About Me

you all know how this works... I'm looking for a friend that may lead into more. Someone who has good moral values, who understands how important children are, who realizes that life IS NOT about sex, drugs and rock n roll. Im very independent and can do almost anything for myself and children. I dont NEED a man...I WANT one to share my life with. Im looking for someone who has grown out of partying and drinking just because. Someone that is caring, compassionate, loving, financially stable, emotionally stable and not a drug user. I am allergic to pot....so NO. Someone who can comprehend what being faithful is, that cheating is a mentality as well as an act. Someone who is NOT shallow or materialistic. Someone.....who simply cares about more than just themselves. Someone who can see past a persons flaws and not use them as ammunition. Someone who can appreciate a big girl like me. Im no barbie and it takes a real man to be comfortable with a big woman....are you one? or do you only see skin deep? If you dont have an interest in a plus size girl...dont waste your time or mine. Ok...not to offend anyone but if your idea of a good time is 4wheeling, fishing and drinking beer...im not for you. I like to have fun but I need a little more mental stimulation than getting drunk and playin in the mud. How about a good movie... trip to an art gallery... good convention in town... coffee bar... hike/walk by the lake... roadtrip to somewhere youve never been... wine tasting.... im looking for some culture and intelligent conversation.Im not a sports fan...dont mind if you are but dont expect me to watch the game with you or even care who wins. Something casual...coffee shop..walk in the park/by the lake. Good conversation, smiles and laughs.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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