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Kathi, 39
United States, Indiana, Clarksville

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About Me

Hey there! I'm a 39 year old (holy crap! when did that happen??) Paramedic looking for someone fun to spend my free time with. I'm constantly on the go & want someone who can keep up with me. I enjoy anything active that gets me out of the house & am looking forward to new experiences. I have a wicked sense of humor & will do most anything for a laugh. I'm loyal, dependable, & generous to a fault, tend to see both sides of most arguments, & give just about anyone the benefit of the doubt...at least once. I'm touched by random acts of kindness & have zero tolerance for those who mistreat others. I'm normal, stable, own my own home, & have my act together, I'm looking for the same in a partner. My pics are all current within the past few years; they show various hair lengths as I like to grow it out, chop it off, & donate it to Locks of Love (Currently my hair is all one length, at my shoulders, as I donated 14 inches earlier this year). I'm multi-lingual, multi-faceted, multi-talented...curious? Message me for details...;)That's me in a nutshell, so who are you? Someone who has a great sense of humor & positive attitude, physically fit, takes care of yourself & those around you. Non-smoker (this is non-negotiable), non-addict in general, mid-30's to early 40's (if you're in your 50's, I'm sure you're fabulous, but not the one for me), financially stable. You're drama-free (yes, you men can be pretty melodramatic too!), 'cause frankly, I deal with too much of that nonsense at work & don't want it at home. Must want to have kids & be at least tolerant of cats (mine are pretty sweet...cats, that is). I'm a very hands-on person, so you must like to cuddle! Not looking for a fling or serial dating...when two people are right for each other there's just no need. Update to who I'm looking for: someone kind, caring, outgoing, phsyically & mentally fit, STD free (non-negotiable), who can form coherent sentences & has a good grasp of the English language (for example, if you message me with, "Hey Boo! I like yo pics & wanna get wit dat!", you don't stand a snowball's chance in hell with me). Someone who understands the purpose of a belt & actually wears his pants around his waist (seriously, pants strapped around your thighs, with one hand constantly hiking them up & your BVD's pulled halfway up your back? NOT a good look, guys, not sure who's telling you otherwise!), someone who doesn't dress, act, or aspire to be a thug. It's sad that this has to be said, but it's just appalling the type of guys who have contacted me. I'm looking for someone respectful & respectable to share my life with, so if you want to start contact with explicit, inappropriate messages, I'm not the woman for you. Also, if you absolutely have to have a drink in your hand (or more importantly, you need your date to be drinking) in order to have fun, we're not a good match. So what's the plan? Night on the town or curled up on the couch with a good movie? Comedy club or giant trampolines? Home-cooked meal or one spent with those you've just served at the local shelter? Doesn't matter where I am or what I'm doing, but who I'm with...ready for some fun?? ;)One last thing...if you want to "meet me" or think I'm your "favorite", man-up & say so. I'm not going to chase you around. Send me a message & say hi, we'll go from there. Oh, I'll give you all one last little hint, since you made it this far...notice how many women all message you with the same, "Hey there! ;)"...??? No, we aren't all Stepford women, meetville has a "flirt" option for us...they used to tell you we'd flirted with you, now if we click that button it sends the 'hey there' message *** you got this message from me, it's not that I'm too lazy to message you, it's that I'm probably sitting on a street corner in an ambulance, didn't have time to send a heartfelt message, but wanted to get your attention. So write me back! ;) Something casual & fun so we can get to know one another without any stress or pressure...dinner & a movie? Hiking? Cooking class? I'm up for just about anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Christian Electronic English Middle Eastern Comedy Music Cricket Nascar Soccer / Football
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  • Herta from Clarksville | Woman | 39 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I would describe myself as a feminine girl with an edge. I love everything about being a woman. High heels, painted nails and long hair. I also dig pony tails, little or no make up and my running shoes.I like being in nature and used to camp a lot but haven't been in years. I also adore nice hotels with room service for fun weekend get-a-ways.I love to read and be inspired. I love the girly stuff too (shopping,pedicures, facials- all that stuff we do)I enjoy a night with my girls to laugh and be silly but enjoy topics that have meaning too. I have been known to dance at hole in the wall bars to really bad cover songs but sometime want to share a bottle of wine at a place with a view or a lounge with a cool vibe. I can rock a pair of $5 flip-flops or a pair of $***heels. I think you get the point. I like to mix it up. Personal: I am honest and loyal. I've been told I'm witty and smart and funny (I really am the funniest person I know) and can be sarcastic in a playful way. I'm independent. I'm self aware. I can laugh at myself. I have self confidence which comes naturally but I'm soft too. I am not afraid to say I'm sorry. Oh and I floss.I'm from the mid-west originally and have been told I'm down to earth. I think that's a fair description of me. Work: I have a really cool job that is challenging and creative.Health/Fitness: I'm in really good shape and I try and hit the gym everyday (except Sunday!). Yoga keeps me balanced, weights keep me strong and running helps me stay on my path. ( literally and mentally) I tend to eat healthy but I don't deprive myself of anything. Moderation.I do love movies and great TV and have the big ol' plasma and Roku to prove it but movie time is my way to unwind at night. (or snuggle with some sweetness, if I had some sweetness- which I don't and I wouldn't be here if I did)I have a current passport and have done some traveling. There's lots more places I want to go and would love to find someone to explore with.** the next part of my profile was written a long time ago and is intended to be funny! As I am recently back on meetville I thought about deleting it as parts of it are no longer relevant. I've decided to keep it as it makes me smile even though it is lost on most and I've gotten a hard time for it in the past. Lighten up, it's only online dating!You: Please have a job. I understand if your in a "transition" and we are in a recession but..c'mon. (maybe it's not the best time to be dating)Please take care of yourself. If you describe yourself as "athletic" but can't see your wiener when looking down at your feet then we probably won't be a good match. If you wear your hat or visor to the side or upside down- keep on clicking tiger. If your way of writing/ typing is: "wuz up 2 all da hotties out der"--then good luck homeyIf you're the type of guy who says "CIAO" *** good bye then adios amigo.If your first note to me is "hey cum over" , "i have a nice lady pleaser" or "you have kissable lips" or "I can make dat booty go clap" then not no but --HELL NO!I tend to be attracted to men taller than me.**If you have pics of your kids in your profile- don't message me. (having kids is no biggie but showing them in profiles is inappropriate in my opinion) thanks! WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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  • Georgianne from Clarksville | Woman | 36 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    A little about me...I am a simple person and I am very family oriented. I have two kids who will be 16 y/o and 18 y/o in a couple of months and I try to spend as much time with them as they allow. I love being casual and wearing jeans, tanks/sweatshirts and flip-flops, but I also like getting dressed up and enjoying a night on the town. I like to be social and spend time with friends, but I also like to curl up and watch a movie or take a walk and enjoy the quiet. I don't limit myself to specific activities that I think I like or don't like to do...unless they involve heights....in that case, I'll need a little coaxing, but I will still consider it. :) There are many things that I have not had the chance to do or experience so I think it's unfair to say I wouldn't like them and not even give them a chance. I like to try new things so meeting someone with common interests is great, but meeting someone who can also share what they love to do with me is even better. I have a busy life like most, but I am more than willing to make time for someone I want to get to know better. What I'm searching for...this should be simple right!?! I am looking for a guy who is genuine from the start….someone who is funny, honest, understanding, driven, thoughtful and smart. A guy who loves his family and friends and takes the time to appreciate what life has to offer. I am not looking for a hookup. :/ I am tall so I am attracted to guys who are taller than I am and if you smell good that is a definite plus…I’m sure that sounded weird – haha! I love to cuddle and I love the simplest gestures a man can give…which mean the most to me. While I know there are a lot of nice guys out there, if I don’t feel that there is a natural chemistry or physical attraction, I’m not going to pursue the “more than friends” path. Honestly, I feel that it is a waste of time for both of us and just settling is not an option for me. Of course there is a lot more to me and a lot more to you...hopefully we can chat and see if there is a possible us. :)

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  • Reilly from Clarksville | Woman | 38 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hi! I am down to earth, genuine, fun, kind, caring and honest. I have everything that I need and am not seeking someone to give me things. I would like to find someone with a big heart! a traditionally romantic man who wants to protect his woman, an individual who is generous with his time and affection. (towards me) lol If you are into being active and eating healthy then I think you'd be a good influence on me :) I would like to be introduced to more outdoor activities. I like exercise(don't get to do it as often as I'd like) & I just tried boxing classes...lot's of fun! I am a woman! I am shapely! not thin, not overweight and I certainly do not work out often enough to call myself fit. Although, I do try to eat healthy most of the time for my own well being. I prefer a man who will open my door & hold my hand. I am shy at first, silly when i'm comfortable & very affectionate, I'd enjoy meeting someone with a good sense of humor, someone who is not worried with what others think, a man comfortable being himself. Travel is my biggest passion! I can spend hours talking about places I've been or amazing destinations I would love to discover. I don't think that I've danced enough in my life....whether it be the 2 of us in the living room or out on a dance floor. :) I find that my bucket list keeps getting longer and longer. haha I love swinging in hammocks, sipping fruity drinks with tiny umbrellas, sunsets and the sound of the ocean. I am truly an island girl at heart!I like watching the Foodnetwork (but it always makes me hungry) especially Diners, Drive-ins &; other shows when I have time.I would not call myself typical! I am more impressed with personality & character than with material possessions. I believe in Karma & being a good person. I can handle sarcasm but don't think I'm looking for that kind of man. I also know too much about 80's TV /Music & movie trivia, LOL! Please do not message me if you're looking for a Hook Up! If you are a confident, take charge, your momma taught you how to treat a lady kind of man, I'd love to hear from you. If you are only searching for outer beauty, please DO NOT contact me! I'm not seeking someone shallow, only someone who wants to be loved & give love in return. As you saw in my profile, I do have children. They are awesome & amazing! However, they are with their Dad on the weekends so I do have the freedom to go out and enjoy new adventures.That's all folks! :) I don't care to much about where we go & what we do but I do care that you are a gentleman. Chivalry is charming & super sexy! I do really enjoy a good cup of coffee.....mmmmm! WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

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