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Kathi, 39
United States, Indiana, Clarksville

Offline, last seen Wed, 04 Jun 2025 10:19:31

About Me

Hey there! I'm a 39 year old (holy crap! when did that happen??) Paramedic looking for someone fun to spend my free time with. I'm constantly on the go & want someone who can keep up with me. I enjoy anything active that gets me out of the house & am looking forward to new experiences. I have a wicked sense of humor & will do most anything for a laugh. I'm loyal, dependable, & generous to a fault, tend to see both sides of most arguments, & give just about anyone the benefit of the doubt...at least once. I'm touched by random acts of kindness & have zero tolerance for those who mistreat others. I'm normal, stable, own my own home, & have my act together, I'm looking for the same in a partner. My pics are all current within the past few years; they show various hair lengths as I like to grow it out, chop it off, & donate it to Locks of Love (Currently my hair is all one length, at my shoulders, as I donated 14 inches earlier this year). I'm multi-lingual, multi-faceted, multi-talented...curious? Message me for details...;)That's me in a nutshell, so who are you? Someone who has a great sense of humor & positive attitude, physically fit, takes care of yourself & those around you. Non-smoker (this is non-negotiable), non-addict in general, mid-30's to early 40's (if you're in your 50's, I'm sure you're fabulous, but not the one for me), financially stable. You're drama-free (yes, you men can be pretty melodramatic too!), 'cause frankly, I deal with too much of that nonsense at work & don't want it at home. Must want to have kids & be at least tolerant of cats (mine are pretty sweet...cats, that is). I'm a very hands-on person, so you must like to cuddle! Not looking for a fling or serial dating...when two people are right for each other there's just no need. Update to who I'm looking for: someone kind, caring, outgoing, phsyically & mentally fit, STD free (non-negotiable), who can form coherent sentences & has a good grasp of the English language (for example, if you message me with, "Hey Boo! I like yo pics & wanna get wit dat!", you don't stand a snowball's chance in hell with me). Someone who understands the purpose of a belt & actually wears his pants around his waist (seriously, pants strapped around your thighs, with one hand constantly hiking them up & your BVD's pulled halfway up your back? NOT a good look, guys, not sure who's telling you otherwise!), someone who doesn't dress, act, or aspire to be a thug. It's sad that this has to be said, but it's just appalling the type of guys who have contacted me. I'm looking for someone respectful & respectable to share my life with, so if you want to start contact with explicit, inappropriate messages, I'm not the woman for you. Also, if you absolutely have to have a drink in your hand (or more importantly, you need your date to be drinking) in order to have fun, we're not a good match. So what's the plan? Night on the town or curled up on the couch with a good movie? Comedy club or giant trampolines? Home-cooked meal or one spent with those you've just served at the local shelter? Doesn't matter where I am or what I'm doing, but who I'm with...ready for some fun?? ;)One last thing...if you want to "meet me" or think I'm your "favorite", man-up & say so. I'm not going to chase you around. Send me a message & say hi, we'll go from there. Oh, I'll give you all one last little hint, since you made it this far...notice how many women all message you with the same, "Hey there! ;)"...??? No, we aren't all Stepford women, meetville has a "flirt" option for us...they used to tell you we'd flirted with you, now if we click that button it sends the 'hey there' message *** you got this message from me, it's not that I'm too lazy to message you, it's that I'm probably sitting on a street corner in an ambulance, didn't have time to send a heartfelt message, but wanted to get your attention. So write me back! ;) Something casual & fun so we can get to know one another without any stress or pressure...dinner & a movie? Hiking? Cooking class? I'm up for just about anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Electronic English Middle Eastern Comedy Music Cricket Nascar Soccer / Football
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