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Elwanda, 38

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About Me

PLEASE DON'T BE CREEPY! I enjoy travel, the sun, BBQ's, cooking, concerts, dining, wine and just fun.I think of myself of someone who has range who loves to dress up or be very casual and shoot pool at a dive bar. Variety is important to me.I really am trying online dating which is a stretch for me because I would like to meet someone and I'm not hanging out in bars often.I do meet men every day just in business and life...but I just don't feel like I have met anyone interesting in awhile. I'd love to be impressed. I want to meet someone that I can be excited about. I am NOT a fling or one night stand kind of girl at all. If your just a pretty boy looking for a hook up I'm not interested.I appreciate someone with a work ethic, I have a good job and am financially secure. Would expect the same in a match. I do like to travel, restaurants and enjoy nice things so slackers are not attractive in the least. I like motivated and educated people who make things happen. I have successful friends and I like to be around thriving environments.I like all types of music...I've been in the art business for most of my career before going into sales and marketing. The art industry explains the life I love; creative, fun, bright, energetic, open.I believe fitness is sexy and I like a man who takes care of himself. I like tall men. Handsome is a plus. :) I'm attracted to entrepreneurs more than those who work for others...I just admire the risk and vision.I am often approached by younger men which I admit can be flattering but I am really looking for a man my age. I like a refined, smart, witty man who takes the lead. I tried the much younger thing and it was drama which I detest. Really looking for a man not a boytoy.As a woman, I enjoy the girlie things and am ultra feminine. I am a bit old school and love to cater to my man a bit with cooking and staging sexy environments for fun. I love to be playful and have fun in dating. I love to laugh and really love family and quality time. I attend church regularly but am not a christian fanatic but enjoy the lessons and positive messaging to start the week.I have two children who I take great pride in. If you have an issue with children, I am not your girl.My son is nearly 13 and honor roll and I have a baby girl 19mos old. Probably dinner...sushi & sake. Whatever really. I will meet you at the place we choose.I look at a first date as meeting as a friendship with no expectations or pressure. We are who we are.I do believe there has to be a physical attraction to have a 2nd date however I do take things slow.I don't like long first dates. I prefer them short and sweet. 2 hours max.I'm a very busy girl so I just like first dates to be about an introduction, feel things out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Janette

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    board games, movies, amusement parks,amazing 6 year old son who has no concept of the definition of the word "daddy," so if children frighten you, I won't be too hurt if that is a deal breaker. With thatthat being said, if you have a temper or any kind of anger issues, I have ZERO TOLERANCE, I've already been in that type of relationship, and I won't do it again. I am also tipping the scale at about 170lbs so if that is "too big" I understand. Between being onon my feet for 9 plus hours per day and then chasing my son around, I just don't feel motivated to keep paying for my gym membership! (just can't seem to shake the baby weight!) I learned from my ex that I neither enjoy watching, nor participating in any kind of motorsports. After nearly being dumped off the back of a hayabusa, I have no desire to ever get on the back of another bike, I have too much to live for. I can find humor in almost anything, and I haven't quite figured out if I should seek someone just as goofy, or someone who can balance me out. I speak what is on my mind, there is no filter between my brain and mouth... honesty and respect are very important to me. I really don't enjoy being outside from about May to September... I really like air conditioning. I really dislike hangovers, so I don't drink a whole lot anymore. Another fun fact about me... when my ex bailed, he got to take one of my 2 dogs (which is fine, because she always pooped on the rug so it was a blessing in disguise) and took everything but the bills with him. One could say that I am not financially where I wanted to be at my age, which is extremely embarassing, but better that it comes out now that I couldn't finance the steam off of a hotdog, than wasting your time if you were looking for someone "financially secure," right? I know I sound like a "bitter party of one," but I am much happier now, and out of the absolute worst thing that has happened to me, came the best thing that has ever happened to me (my son) so I have hardly any regrets. I am not much of a snuggler.

  • Liane

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Where are all the good guys that want or need a good woman?? Not seeing that here.....do you guys not open doors and buy flowers anymore??? All I can say is this is NOT a game and that's my final answer! I have a job, I'm not here looking for a sugar daddy or need you to pay my bills.... be nice to find a guy that's OK dealing with ONE woman and not 10...not into drama or lies, IF your going to tell me your going to do something then DO it, I don't need your empty promises! If your job, children, or ex-gfs/wives are going to take all your time then maybe you don't need a relationship :) NOT sure there's such a thing out there anymore.....just sayin! (btw I love kids nothing at all against them) have a good day! thanks for reading! My first date would have to be dinner, talking and getting to know each other. Nothing to private, just relaxation and simple!!!

  • Phoenix

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I've tried Internet meeting in the past and didn't have much luck with it. So here I go again! I come from an Irish Military Family, grew up in Europe. I am a Property Manager, also working towards a double major in Film and Archaeology. I enjoy a good laugh, a pint, don't take life to serious, love to have fun and try new things. Because I come from a predominantly male environment I am a little more male-minded and am not afraid to get dirty and I love all things related to the outdoors. Somewhere comfortable and somewhat quiet, or better yet surprise me ;-)

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