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TarahOnline
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I'd rather you hate me for the person that I am then ever love me for something that I'm not. What you see is what you get. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I love to laugh, have great conversation, finding something a little out of the the status quo, ooh and watching my Vikes! Although I must admit I saw my first football game at a local sports bar here and no one was there! That's going to take some getting used to.I love people who are honest, direct and upfront and realize that doesn't mean disrespectful.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away. We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.
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StarOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I gotta start with wow! There are some young ones on here. If I have looked at your profile and you are way younger than me...think nothing of it. I was just looking to see the pictures...I have 3 boys to raise and Im NOT looking for another. Was just lookin guys. Anyway, I have changed from seeking a relationship to simply seeking a friend. I just dont have the patience for this *** they call love. Besides, if you cant be my friend, my best friend, then theres no need to be my lover or my partner.I am a country girl, always have been, always will be. If you cant get past that, im sorry but keep looking. I like to work on engines, build things, tear things apart, and i live to play in the mud (yes thats Live, not love...its a deeper devotion). If you like these things as well, thats great. If you would like to do them with me, thats fabulous. I would love to share my passions with you, but you must know, i will do them with or without you.If your profile says you would like kids, you better make damn sure thats true. Ive had the whole wasted time with someone who said he did, and changed his mind. Said his kids were grown and he didnt want to do that again. I said youve known for months that I have This is not something I would really like to plan. Talk to me, get to know me and you may figure out what it is I like, if not we'll go from there.
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SavanahOnline
Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
I have worked hard to get where I want to be. I have goals set for myself that I will accomplish. I have two beautiful daughter's who are my life. I love kickboxing/MMA and playing softball, both of which I do frequently. I am working on getting into shape by being active and living life the way it should be, to the fullest. Once the weather cools down, I plan to add hiking to my list of activities. A man who wants to come along is a plus.I am not looking for a one night hook up. If you are, please keep moving to the next profile. I am sweet with a sarcastic side. A guy who can dish it back gets bonus points. If you play softball/baseball you go to the top of the list lol Anything else you want to know, feel free to ask. Please, if you are going to be rude, difficult or disrespectful, save us both the time. I don't need it and neither do you. FYI- just because I give you a compliment does not mean I want in your pants. A simple thanks if you are not interested in talking will suffice. At least have some basic manners please. :-)"If you cannot handle me at my worst, you definitely do not deserve me at my best" Quick meeting to see if we click. Not a fan of movie dates at first. Too hard to talk. How bout you take a kickboxing class with me or meet me at the batting cages :-)