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Carlita, 40

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About Me

head in the clouds feet on the ground looking 4 the same :) NOT interested in FWB or one nighters - boots a truck and or motorcycle (RICE) is a PLUS not playin games I DO NOT DO DRUGS OF ANY KIND & DON'T TOLERATE IT at ALL - yes ***IS a drug to me ***Christian mingle drop out LOLIF u have x drama keep fishing I have a great relationship with my x no drama we co parent & will always have the love of our son in common GEOGRAPHICALLY desirable please ! NO OUTTA town or STATE im a mom of the most AMAZING man in the world my 18 yr old son I'm fun loving silly goofy n down to earth just the right mix of a teenager & grown woman all in one I don't believe in being anyone but myself I am totally ok with me & being 40 but who says its time to start slowing down there's way to much life to live out there & I'm only scared of dying before I'm done. My bucket list still has a few things left one is a best friend are you him ? 25% more FUN than UR ex GUARANTEED ! I love rainbows & unicorns how bout u ? I'm totally kidding it is what it is I mean what I say n say what I mean I'm tell it how it is & keep it real ! I'm ***foot five & one twenty five on a good day up to one thirty on a bad day lol - I bet I can pass for ***and metally probly 25! - young minded love to have fun - old school girl lookin for old school guy - a date - happy hour dinner doesn't have to cost alot but seriously - girls don't pay their way - I'm no gold digger just expect to be treated like a lady - last guy complained over spending $50 on the whole night - yes that was dinner & drinks for ***SERIOUSLY ? - yes he had a job - but come on - is that really too much money honey ?DANCING COUNTRY MUSIC - ALL MUSIC - OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES -I'm kinda a tom boy that can rock heels & a skirt - very girly lookin - no masculinity here - but jeans boots n a tank - playin in the mud on dirt bikes - is FUN 4 meI'm loking 4 a MAN - up the ladder blue collar ( not the one in ur truck ) work hard play harder guy with a sexy boy SMILEPLEASE BE UNMARRIED AS I - OLDER/grown KIDS OK - I HAVE ***DON'T LIVE WITH YOUR MOM - BE AROUND MY AGE & white - no offense I just don't find anything other then white men attractive - age 40 to 50 NO YOUNGER THAT'S FOR SURE - LAUGHING TIL UR FACE HURTS - plz don't be allergic to it I can be a bit sarcastic but I'm upbeat & happyI don't have a great job but I love it - I don't have alot of money but I'm happy what else do you want ?Let's hang out u only live once meet new people do new things as long as it's not illegal LOLUNMARRIED -WHITE MALE ***plz CLEAN CUT & 6 foot tall at least & I prefer brown/blue - BE ACTIVE TOO !No professional COUCH riders A man of integrity & good moral character if you live this please *** ;)Feel free to google the definition if u see urself under the images then perfect ! ::::: so if u really RED what all I said to show u what goes along with the pics above put the words PAPER BAG in ur message to me :) I ain't just kicking tires here if ur BAT sh*t KRAZY plz DONT *** IS IMPOSSIBLE EXCEPT TRYING 2 NAIL JELLO 2 A ***Make it a GR8T day! anywhere we can laugh til our face hurts :) I don't drink coffee never liked it sorry :/

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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