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Cecila, 36

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About Me

I am a pretty simple woman and I have been on this site for awhile. I am looking to meet someone who likes the family lifestyle but still likes to get away for the weekend. I would like to meet someone close to my age or older. I have four kids I wouldn't mind more but I can't have them myself. Im not convinced that there is someone for everyone because I have been looking for a very long time and it doesn't seem like many people on this site are looking for someone long term or a woman who isnt a size 6. If by chance my someone is out there I hope you find me. Maybe go for a drink or coffee, see a movie or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tarah

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'd rather you hate me for the person that I am then ever love me for something that I'm not. What you see is what you get. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I love to laugh, have great conversation, finding something a little out of the the status quo, ooh and watching my Vikes! Although I must admit I saw my first football game at a local sports bar here and no one was there! That's going to take some getting used to.I love people who are honest, direct and upfront and realize that doesn't mean disrespectful.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away. We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.

  • Audra

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a honest person who just wants what I give in return.I am a very kind and passionate person. I believe life is to short to stress about all the little stuff. I love affection both to receive and to give, the power of touch is amazing! I would like to find someone that share's some of my same values and thoughts. I'm very open to others thoughts and I know that everyone has a past. I love being outdoors: Camping, fishing, geocaching, bug chasing, BEING IN THE WATER. My one true addiction is the sun :) My kids are my number one priority. My family and I are very close and spend quite a bit of time together. I'm not really a girly girl, but do like to dress up once in a while.I'm looking for that someone that is ready to be my best friend as well as my lover. No I'm obviously not the Barbie type, but I have a huge heart!...Wanna know more? Drop me a line.... I would like to be able to talk and get to know you...open for suggestions :)

  • Ailie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm looking for a HONEST man who ACTUALLY wants a relationship . Please do not message me if you are not wanting to get to know me and intend to play head games. Please dont play mind games with me.I'm on this site to find a real relationship . If your married , have someone , have feelings for your ex leave me alone...thx I like to go out dancing on a first date only because I feel more myself and can let loose and have fun. Also like to go to dinner and a movie.

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