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Shawanda, 40

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About Me

I am stable, successful, happy, love life, love my family, spontaneous, goofy, real, not afraid to play in the dirt. Yet still enjoy some of the finer things in life, I'm sensitive, compassionate, and far from perfect. Will probably never stop learning about what life has to offer and grow from everything I learn. I have a lot to offer and am very kind, loving and affectionate. I love surprising my special someone. Me=LOVE music! My mood dictates what play list I choose. My playlists have everything from country music, Metal Core, 80's hair bands, Metallica, and yes the typical girl music!-Thriller TourMost recent Concert- Mayhem! What an experience!I am a Scorpio, and pretty much live up to the definition! I hope you can keep up. Newest hobby- photography, macro is my favorite capture. Recently learned how to handle a fire arm and love target shooting, I go every Wednesday just to improve my skill. Bald is beautiful, and goatee's are sexy!I have freckles. One of the last remaining Ginger's of the world! Lucky me!I think I am fun, Know I'm sarcastic, Spontaneous, Passionate, Honest- (sometimes to a fault). Also shy- not sure why, maybe it's because my career requires me to be pretty outgoing. HahaI LOVE to cook! I make a pretty amazing salsa!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kathi

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hey there! I'm a 39 year old (holy crap! when did that happen??) Paramedic looking for someone fun to spend my free time with. I'm constantly on the go & want someone who can keep up with me. I enjoy anything active that gets me out of the house & am looking forward to new experiences. I have a wicked sense of humor & will do most anything for a laugh. I'm loyal, dependable, & generous to a fault, tend to see both sides of most arguments, & give just about anyone the benefit of the doubt...at least once. I'm touched by random acts of kindness & have zero tolerance for those who mistreat others. I'm normal, stable, own my own home, & have my act together, I'm looking for the same in a partner. My pics are all current within the past few years; they show various hair lengths as I like to grow it out, chop it off, & donate it to Locks of Love (Currently my hair is all one length, at my shoulders, as I donated 14 inches earlier this year). I'm multi-lingual, multi-faceted, multi-talented...curious? Message me for details...;)That's me in a nutshell, so who are you? Someone who has a great sense of humor & positive attitude, physically fit, takes care of yourself & those around you. Non-smoker (this is non-negotiable), non-addict in general, mid-30's to early 40's (if you're in your 50's, I'm sure you're fabulous, but not the one for me), financially stable. You're drama-free (yes, you men can be pretty melodramatic too!), 'cause frankly, I deal with too much of that nonsense at work & don't want it at home. Must want to have kids & be at least tolerant of cats (mine are pretty sweet...cats, that is). I'm a very hands-on person, so you must like to cuddle! Not looking for a fling or serial dating...when two people are right for each other there's just no need. Update to who I'm looking for: someone kind, caring, outgoing, phsyically & mentally fit, STD free (non-negotiable), who can form coherent sentences & has a good grasp of the English language (for example, if you message me with, "Hey Boo! I like yo pics & wanna get wit dat!", you don't stand a snowball's chance in hell with me). Someone who understands the purpose of a belt & actually wears his pants around his waist (seriously, pants strapped around your thighs, with one hand constantly hiking them up & your BVD's pulled halfway up your back? NOT a good look, guys, not sure who's telling you otherwise!), someone who doesn't dress, act, or aspire to be a thug. It's sad that this has to be said, but it's just appalling the type of guys who have contacted me. I'm looking for someone respectful & respectable to share my life with, so if you want to start contact with explicit, inappropriate messages, I'm not the woman for you. Also, if you absolutely have to have a drink in your hand (or more importantly, you need your date to be drinking) in order to have fun, we're not a good match. So what's the plan? Night on the town or curled up on the couch with a good movie? Comedy club or giant trampolines? Home-cooked meal or one spent with those you've just served at the local shelter? Doesn't matter where I am or what I'm doing, but who I'm with...ready for some fun?? ;)One last thing...if you want to "meet me" or think I'm your "favorite", man-up & say so. I'm not going to chase you around. Send me a message & say hi, we'll go from there. Oh, I'll give you all one last little hint, since you made it this far...notice how many women all message you with the same, "Hey there! ;)"...??? No, we aren't all Stepford women, meetville has a "flirt" option for us...they used to tell you we'd flirted with you, now if we click that button it sends the 'hey there' message *** you got this message from me, it's not that I'm too lazy to message you, it's that I'm probably sitting on a street corner in an ambulance, didn't have time to send a heartfelt message, but wanted to get your attention. So write me back! ;) Something casual & fun so we can get to know one another without any stress or pressure...dinner & a movie? Hiking? Cooking class? I'm up for just about anything!

  • Adria

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I have a lot of energy and feel passionate about living each day in a positive way, even though some of the days that come our way can be pretty average. I definitely want a partner that has their own interests and isn't looking for someone to put in their pocket. I always make time for those important to me but like a balance between friends, family and relationships.....I have shared custody of my very cool daughter and she has a great dad so I'm not looking for a replacement, just a partner for myself to walk through this life with and laugh along the way. I'm a high school special education teacher and love what I get to do each day. I would like a partner that has their own career and are in a good life and was space. I like to stay fit with long distance running and want a partner that is fit as well. I think that you can have a good time anywhere if you are with the right person. Sharing a meal and a drink is a great way to get to know someone and find out if you are on the same page. Doing something interactive like bowling, mini golf, hiking etc. can take the pressure of the first date intensity away and gives you something to do while you get to know each other. And if you are doing something outside, it's easier to run away if the date is awful.... Just kidding, but seriously.....an escape route never hurt anybody :)

  • Dion

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    In Vegas since ***. I have three children 21 year old son in the Air Force, and two daughters 11 &***shared custody). I have a great job and have my life together. Looking for the same. One that doesn't involve a call for my rescue or a great escape!

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