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ElwandaOffline
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
PLEASE DON'T BE CREEPY! I enjoy travel, the sun, BBQ's, cooking, concerts, dining, wine and just fun.I think of myself of someone who has range who loves to dress up or be very casual and shoot pool at a dive bar. Variety is important to me.I really am trying online dating which is a stretch for me because I would like to meet someone and I'm not hanging out in bars often.I do meet men every day just in business and life...but I just don't feel like I have met anyone interesting in awhile. I'd love to be impressed. I want to meet someone that I can be excited about. I am NOT a fling or one night stand kind of girl at all. If your just a pretty boy looking for a hook up I'm not interested.I appreciate someone with a work ethic, I have a good job and am financially secure. Would expect the same in a match. I do like to travel, restaurants and enjoy nice things so slackers are not attractive in the least. I like motivated and educated people who make things happen. I have successful friends and I like to be around thriving environments.I like all types of music...I've been in the art business for most of my career before going into sales and marketing. The art industry explains the life I love; creative, fun, bright, energetic, open.I believe fitness is sexy and I like a man who takes care of himself. I like tall men. Handsome is a plus. :) I'm attracted to entrepreneurs more than those who work for others...I just admire the risk and vision.I am often approached by younger men which I admit can be flattering but I am really looking for a man my age. I like a refined, smart, witty man who takes the lead. I tried the much younger thing and it was drama which I detest. Really looking for a man not a boytoy.As a woman, I enjoy the girlie things and am ultra feminine. I am a bit old school and love to cater to my man a bit with cooking and staging sexy environments for fun. I love to be playful and have fun in dating. I love to laugh and really love family and quality time. I attend church regularly but am not a christian fanatic but enjoy the lessons and positive messaging to start the week.I have two children who I take great pride in. If you have an issue with children, I am not your girl.My son is nearly 13 and honor roll and I have a baby girl 19mos old. Probably dinner...sushi & sake. Whatever really. I will meet you at the place we choose.I look at a first date as meeting as a friendship with no expectations or pressure. We are who we are.I do believe there has to be a physical attraction to have a 2nd date however I do take things slow.I don't like long first dates. I prefer them short and sweet. 2 hours max.I'm a very busy girl so I just like first dates to be about an introduction, feel things out.
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RylieOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Looking for a honest, communicative, loyal guy who presents himself the way that he really is. He should be able to laugh at himself and have a good sense of humor. Can dress up and go out or stay at home and relax. He is looking for a best friend and partner.Im active, honest, from the east coast (nj, ny), think outside the box kinda girl. I will try anything once and like to travel. I run a B&B out of my home while I'm getting my Psychology degree to be a counselor. I have 2 kids. One is 19 and the other is 14. If you think that this might be an issue then please backspace off of my page. Otherwise look forward to hearing from you.
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TarahOffline
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I'd rather you hate me for the person that I am then ever love me for something that I'm not. What you see is what you get. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I love to laugh, have great conversation, finding something a little out of the the status quo, ooh and watching my Vikes! Although I must admit I saw my first football game at a local sports bar here and no one was there! That's going to take some getting used to.I love people who are honest, direct and upfront and realize that doesn't mean disrespectful.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away. We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.