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Phillida, 32
United States, Indiana, Charlestown

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About Me

I'm a very compassionate person, down to earth and looking for some good company..:) Some fact filled details about me..:)- I’m a Newfie; although, I have lived in NS for 11 years now- I have a son who is my little buddy. I have dated men with and without children and I really don’t have a preference. However, if you are not completely open to eventually accepting my child and incorporating him into your life, I am not the person for you. I am hoping that he’s not going anywhere at least for another 12 years :)- I enjoy a good book and plan to write my own children’s book in the very near future- I would consider myself somewhat of the ongoing type and up for some fun anytime!- I like the outdoors, enjoy a walk on the beach and a sky full of stars- Camping is another fav of mine although I can't remember the last time I went. Camp fires with some cold beer are awesome! - Whale and bird watching in the warmer months is a must for me. It fascinates me more every time! I usually take a trip back home every summer and spend most of my days on the water cod fishing...I find it very refreshing.- I have a professional job and take pride in my work ethic- I have a condo. Although it's not my ideal living corridors, it is tastefully decorated to meet my needs- Music tastes? Honestly, I could probably listen to anything and like it. The radio is my best friend most of the time but I do enjoy some of the late 90’s tunes.- I’ve recently become friends with the gym and liking it thus far. - I absolutely love Halloween and the thrill that comes along with it. Scary movies, haunted corn mazes and houses, pumpkin carving…love everything about it. - I drink wine quite often just because I am so classy…kidding! :) I do drink wine though…sometimes very randomly by myself until I pass out :)- I’m somewhat of the girlie type I guess considering how much I adore shoes..ha! Don’t get me wrong, I can get my hands dirty and put the worm on the hook…no prob. I can participate on your fishing trip and quite thoroughly enjoy it; just don’t expect me to eat the catch of the day. - This question will arise so I will answer it upfront. I am officially divorced, no strings attached. My son’s father and I have a fantastic relationship…everyone is good :)- I am not a high maintenance type person at all. My usual Saturday morning look is a ballcap and hoodie and I really could care less. I am a super morning person, as long as there is an IV of coffee in arms reach :***I am often asked, what is it exactly that I am looking for in someone. I don’t think I can honestly answer that question until I find it. I do somewhat know what excites me and gets me intrigued, but I also know what I do not want. - Family comes first and my values and standards are very strong- I’m probably one of the most honest people you will ever meet, independent, dedicated and warmAs my conservatory mind wanders, please know that I am not looking for causal flings. I do like to keep things light and friendly but not too "friendly" at first...:)*** No drugs this way please....Ps: Please don't call me chick....I am far from a chicken....And, if you find this interesting and would like to chat, please say more than a simple "hey, hello or hi"..as I won't be inclined to respond. We all aim to please here, right?I am open for any questions :) Thanks for reading!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro British Caribbean French Greek Middle Eastern Bowling Nascar Soccer / Football To Work Out
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