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Shiela, 35
United States, Indiana, Charlestown

Offline, last seen Fri, 03 Apr 2026 18:15:58

About Me

I am a very normal person! I take care of my dog and go to work! My family is very important to me, and my mother is my best friend! She's a little crazy sometimes, but in a good way! My husband has been gone for a little over a year and even though I still love him I am young and would like to have a family of my own. I don't do the bar scene, and just about all of my friends are married and have children. I'm always the third wheel now, not a good feeling!! I wish I could say I was some fabulous person who did all these things, but I'm not! I enjoy cooking and baking, I bake things all the time and bring them into work. I enjoy being at home with my dog and just relaxing when I can. I would like to start my own company making cakes. I have had enough stress in my life and I am trying to change that so that I can actually live a little longer!! I just want someone who will complete me not complicate me, or try to change me, I am who I am just as you are who you are either we work or we don't! I don't have time for games, cheaters, or liars!! I am always honest and will tell you how I feel and I won't get mad for stupid reasons! I just want a real man, who can handle his own, and be a supportive partner for me.Apparently I need to add some things on here! If you do not have your own place, car, job, ect. please do not message me!!! I am a grown woman who wants a grown man, I do not need a big child! I will not support you! How are you able to take anyone on a date if you don't work??? Just sayin! I don't know what exactly my ideal first date would be. It depends on who it is with and what we might have in common. I am also old fashion and would love to just be surprised! I do expect doors to be opened for me! My uncle taught me a long time ago that if a man can not open the car door, or any other door for a women, they are not a true man.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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