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Pekahiah, 39
United States, Illinois, Salem

Offline, last seen Sun, 07 Jun 2026 06:11:44

About Me

So tough to say what would be an ideal match. I am educated and very open-minded and I am seeking someone who is not sheltered and lulled to sleep like most people I meet. I love to read and write and discuss many things and I need someone who can keep up or least show some interest in what I am passionate about. I need adventure and someone to share new things with, someone who can be spontaneous, especially when it comes to travel. I am so tired of the old adage that nice guys finish last. I cannot understand why a person like me who will cook for you and listen and engage you in conversation and really appreciate you for who you are scares most women or at least most that I have met. I can honestly say that there are very few (if any) men out there like me. I consciously strive to be unique and to separate myself from the norm, but at the same time I am very mellow, relaxed and thoughtful. What else can I say? This stuff is supposed to be fun and that is why I can't understand why so many people settle for mediocrity.UPDATE: If you cannot spell or speak properly please do not bother me. What I do find amusing are all the comments that a guy should have his own car and a job and not be lazy and make excuses and not be a player and so on. Ladies, do not settle for these jerk-offs. There are men out there that don't fit that profile (god I hope). I guess that these kind of sites attract all sorts of creeps--men who are married, sexual predators and the like.UPDATE:I guess I just wanted to add that I have finally gotten some current pics of myself on the site. I have really been getting into all kinds of new excercise stuff lately. A friend got me to try P90X because he said it was impossible (which it nearly is), and I got hooked trying to see if I could keep up. Through it I discovered yoga (at least their version of it). It is one of the most difficult and most rewarding things I do now. I love being active outdoors, however, I don't find it as enjoyable doing those kinds of things by myself. I would love to meet someone with whom I could enjoy those outdoor activities. Someone who really likes doing that kind of stuff. I want to get a kayak and have a river adventure, I want to go see something beautiful I have yet to see. Its funny though, in reading other people's profiles you'd think that meetville. was a refuge for nature lovers. Almost everyone lists hiking and camping and fishing as hobbies or interests. My favorite, of course, is shopping. Ladies, I know you love to shop, but shopping is not a hobby. lolMy main reason for being on this site is boredom. I am so sick of not having anything fun to do. Let's go have some fun!! Dinner at a nice restaurant comes to mind first, except nice restaurants are hard to find around here. That would work if the certain someone enjoyed that kind of thing--food and wine are two of my passions. Otherwise, weather permitting, I would love to go somewhere outdoors in our beautiful PA mountains for a hike and perhaps a light picnic. Also, I think going to see a movie for a first date is a horrible idea. Sitting next to and not across from each other in an environment where you are not supposed to talk is not my idea of getting to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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