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Tobiah, 37
United States, Illinois, Salem

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About Me

"I was about half in love with her by the time we sat down. That's the thing about girls. Every time they do something pretty... you fall half in love with them, and then you never know where the hell you are." (J. D. Salinger) Welcome! Okay, no doubt you're looking for some insight on who this guy is and how he operates. Let's illuminate:I love parties, insightful conversations, dancing to the right beat and having little adventures. Or big ones. (Medium, too.)Romance is the foundation of a healthy relationship and I give as good as I get, if not better. I'm a Libra, better do your homework. Exercise and healthy eating habits are essential, underlined. So is underlining things, underlined . I'm physical, and love exercise and playing outdoors. Day hikes, camping, road trips, shopping at vintage stores where I'll probably find some cool old waisted cabinet I'll just HAVE To refinish (it's a problem)... anything, everything, I'm in, let's do it. I love music but cannot sing a note. I'm one of the eldest, and have changed most of their diapers, which is a wonderful card to pull out when I find myself recipient of their generous abuse (which never stops, really). I have a subtle sense of humour and would love someone I can laugh and giggle with who shares a similar worldview, who feels like she can be herself around me and enjoys a bit of spontaneity. I consider myself down-to-earth, pragmatic, and filled with smiles— but careful not to misinterpret my cheerful affability for inexperience. Since they can't all be golden, also know I'm terribly headstrong, provocative and prone to speaking out of turn. (Sensitive, too. And protective.) For those lovely ladies seeking their quick fix, keep seeking. I'm too tender for that anymore. Careless women make men cold, and my days of dalliances are done. That said, be gorgeous to me, honest, present and patient and you'll probably fulfill my criteria. Most importantly, I eat grapes by the fistful.If you're that kind (always), spiritually generous, loving (read: tactile) person who understands true relationships simply can't happen overnight, and that they take time and tenderness, and that we're all imperfect creatures, then I'd love to hear from you. And if I take a little longer than most to respond, don't think anything of it. It's just that work-life-balance thing swinging too far in one direction. I usually manage to right the thing in a week or two. ;) Cold drinks, warmer company.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Spanish Crime Horror Sci-Fi Nascar Shooting Sports
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