Total users: 60,106,823 Online users: 216,386
Lane, 40
United States, Illinois, Gillespie

Offline, last seen Wed, 26 Nov 2025 09:58:44

About Me

A little about me... I'm usually smiling:) I'm a very optimistic, positive and active person. I'm athletic and played golf in college...and yes...golf is a real sport! I'm pretty smart...always a good person to have on your team for trivia night.I'd like to think I'm a funny...occasionally even clever and witty. I laugh a lot, frequently at myself. I've learned to be a good listener and enjoy intelligent conversation.I also enjoy being silly and goofy at times.I'm considerate and respectful, but definitely no pushover. I'm very loyal and have never been unfaithful!Please contact me if...You are an intelligent, attractive, passionate, and confident woman!And when I say confidence I don't mean Kanye West style, a little humility is also appreciated.Possess a great sense of humor, and take good care of yourself sans the occasional chocolate binge;)Slightly goofy and quirky sense of humor is a plus!Good communicator! None of us are perfect, but I do want someone who is already in a good place in their life. I'm looking for 1 1=3! For younger women...I'm searching younger because I still want to have kids, not be a sugar daddy.I have no problem spending most of the money, but I'm too smart to be duped if you aren't genuine. I'm in good shape and have lots of energy, but I'm probably not going to pull an all- At least not on a weekday;) If you are younger, but still think we could be a good match then please send me note.I also don't want to scare anyone. I don't have a clock or a timeline for any of this. I love kids and would like to be a father one day, but if it's not in the cards for me I will just continue to be the coolest uncle in the world. It's also totally fine with me if you already have a kid or kids. If our relationship gets far enough I will play whatever role you want me to with your children. I mentioned some negatives above, but if more than half of your profile is written about stuff you don't want in your next relationship then we probably aren't a match. I totally understand where you are coming from, but my brain just doesn't work the same way. I have never achieved anything worthwhile by focusing on all the things that could go wrong. At this point in our lives we have all been burned by at least one jerk. If that's all you keep finding then you probably need to figure out what you're doing wrong, not wonder why there are so many jerks out there.Life is definitely a journey! I'm very happy all by myself, but would love to have someone special to share the journey with me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American British English Indonesian Fantasy Sci-Fi War Rodeo Volleyball
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Uniquelyhere from Gillespie | Man | 42 years old | Scorpio
    Uniquelyhere

    Offline

    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 23-30

    I dont know what i expect to find just looking for fun and thought id try something new. I like to do alot of things just ask im pretty open. I work and play hard. More of a country guy more than anything *** or ***

    Chat
  • Cainan from Gillespie | Man | 38 years old | Taurus
    Cainan

    Offline

    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    Passion, affection, and romance in a relationship is extremely important to me. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with who they are. I want to meet someone who takes the time to spend it with their family and friends. Someone who is honest, sincere, open-minded, and loves to talk about anything and everything. Someone who thinks that it is the little things that make life worthwhile. I'm looking for someone with the potential for long term and possible marriage and kids.

    Chat
  • Devon from Gillespie | Man | 40 years old | Gemini
    Devon

    Offline

    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    I love baking, inviting friends and having game night or cooking weird desserts and food for them. I’m attracted to people with nice smile. It must be someone who keeps up with family traditions.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: