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Bartley, 36

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About Me

.... People always comment to me. " How can a nice guy like you be single" I guess no one wants a nice guy any more. Im done with that parting part of my life. I spmeone to grow old with. I'm looking for a good woman that is honest and trustworthy. Someone that is good with kids. I have a son. I like all types of Music Hip\hop, R&b, Classic rock, rock, very little country. I don't judge people. You are who you are, no body can change a person. I love being around my son and other kids. I respect woman like they are supposed to be respected. I don't play games and i don't like drama or B.S. I tell it how it is. I'm a laid back easy going person. If someone needs help in anything I'm there for them no matter what it is. I'm also shy in the beginning. Ill start to open up after we break the ice.I do use foul language once in a while just so you are aware, like wtf, mofo, sob. I do not use this language around my son. I'm an active person. I always like to go out and do something. But its no fun doing it alone. I'm always up for new things. Ill do about anything. While growing up, I've became very handy around the house. I can fix about anything, Some times I like to out for a drink, but not to the clubs, jusst cuz im not teh greatest dancer. I like the bars where can just relax and have a drink. my fav. drink is SOCO n mountain dew. Im good at pool, so if you think you are good and you want give me a challenge Ill take your offer. If you are interested send me a message. If there is ever a time that you are in a bad mood; grumpy, mad or sad. Ill find a way to get you in a good mood. I can bring you some flowers and or chocolates. If those things are not your thing. ill find something else to cheer you up. If you are having a long stressful day. I like to go out and do something fun. lets plan something.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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And most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” - Steve Jobs Decorate a Christmas tree together :)Lol...I’m more of a let’s meet as quick as possible, strange how that’s different online!? How we have this pre-disposed/determined view that this online thing is “seedy”? But if that’s the case, then why is it better to drag it out for 2 weeks, waste our finger strength only to find out that the guy you’ve been IMing is really a 60 year old transvestite (unless you’re into that)? Weird notion, but when and if we met on the streets, in a bar or grocery store, and one of us walked up to the other and asked them out (my favourite way to meet people), we would know almost *** we were interested right? 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So the first time we meet, how about we meet on a corner somewhere, no commitment, and get a sense of one another...if it goes well, then we’ll take it from there? :) So if you made it through all of that profile, were able to read through the lines, take some of what I said with tongue N’ cheek, still interested and message me in the next 5 minutes, I’ll probably ask you to go for a quick drink and or meet outside your local dépanneur, and share a bag of fuzzy peaches in an hour and we’ll see if there is chemistry (then we can text and *** want :)

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