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About Me

If you hit Monday without a new good story to tell, you’ve wasted one of the weekends you’ve got left. I collect experiences worth having, people worth knowing, and stories worth telling...and I love to sample every edge of life. I'll crank the music and be the life of the party, but I’m also kind of a nerd who collects all manner of knowledge. I’m about the most social introvert you’re likely to meet - I’m far from shy and have a gregarious charm that makes me fairly memorable. I’m adventurous – not likely to land on the evening news, but I think it’s important to step outside your comfort zone.– what have you been doing that’s fun?I get along with a huge variety of “types” of people - high caliber people come in every flavor. I find it fascinating to get inside the head of somebody who has walked a very different path than me. I love to travel and really experience the local culture outside of the tourist areas. Sarcastic, witty and irreverent, if you can't laugh at yourself you won't fare well in my company.I'm pretty handy in the kitchen - food is one of my passions and well done can be just as sensual as sex. I love comparing notes with other foodies – what’s your favorite clever recipe? I love the architecture and style of big bridges and old buildings. I love serendipitously discovered cleverness.I'm in a happy poly relationship with my girlfriend, which means we have a deep bond but also date other people in a completely above the board fashion. The beauty of polyamorous / open relationships is I am just that; open to possibilities, open to adventures, and always open to more extraordinary people in my life - in any capacity.Simply put, I don't want to only love one person for the rest of my life; that doesn't feel natural to me. I have a lot of love to give and I love a lot of different characteristics and personality types that one person simply can't embody. I like to be engaged in different experiences and scenarios and prefer variety to allow for a fully stimulating life. I also believe that experiences outside of my relationship actually help me appreciate it all the more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Losinghope

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-53

    Hi! My name is Losinghope. I am divorced catholic caucasian man without kids from East Alton, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Basil

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    Hello! So yes, I do travel a bit! Would you like to come along? Do you prefer flying, sailing, scuba, off-roading, or getting on a motorcycle? Your choice... True story: I learned to ride horses before I rode a bicycle, and yet I do not listen to country music...I'm a exceptionally content and happy lad, enjoying *people* in general. I know that some of you ladies may have a lot to be grumpy about, have been hurt, and all, and I understand that - but if that's the case and you're *constantly* unhappy, chances are we wouldn't be a good match. While I don't mind helping you with some life baggage as we all have some, bear in mind the zippy convertible has a small trunk to fit it in, the bike not at all, and the 4X4 has dogs in it. Small baggage, please :)I tend to live life to the fullest as best as I can, and have an exceptional variety of hobbies and interests (all of which I am happy to share while having you bring along your own). I have a strong passion for living, a bit of a warm heart, a ton of determination, and great sense of integrity. What about you? What are you like? Have fun, be warm, have some determination and goals in your life and we'll get along great!During the day, I run a $1 Billion dollar business which is a huge responsibility, and yet I do my best not to take myself too seriously. A feminine companion brings me warmth, light, fun, and if that means a little edge, that's great too. Growing up in Europe means I celebrate chivalry; women would never want equality as they wouldn't find the demotion nearly as fun. With that in mind, I get out and do a massive amount of fun, unconventional things, be it in concerts, groups, rides, trips and more. Sarcasm, playfulness, wit and fun are always welcome. If you're cruel to others including pets, women, or relatives, chances are that may be why you're single. While it isn't always easy to be nice, I appreciate those who do their best. Hobbies: let's see... I travel.- not so much a hobby as superfast transportation), enjoy training my dogs (German Shepherds) in "Extreme Dog Sports" (French Ring, Mondio Ring, and Schutzhund, for the curious), camp and hike, love to scuba dive (Lobster Season!), spend time with family and friends, and on rare occasion will enjoy a bottle of wine, visiting art musems and galleries......enjoy festivals...ride motorcycles...make new friends...run...swim and cycle....and a few more things.Pick a genre of music and chances are I've been to a concert recently or a live event - I enjoy traveling to Vegas and gambling on occasion, more because I like the game versus the psyche of "gambling"; I wrestled and ran while in High School and College, and ran marathons and triathlons - Weekend mornings I enjoy running road races. While I have a ton of hobbies, I don't expect you to participate in them, yet may still very well celebrate yours.I do like my lazy bits at home simply enjoying a good TV show or reading a good book or two. Bonfires and Barbeques. I'll gladly work on the car, plane or motorcycle, or build and tinker to keep my mind curious. I can do construction if I must, but I'd rather outsource it like other labor. I was a Boy Scout. I got in trouble for teasing girl scouts. Come to think of it, I still know some Girl Scout management these days...Live and learn. I can farm and garden, though I don't do much of it; I avoid doing my own mechanical work on cars but do a bit of it on the airplanes, boat and motorcycle. I cook and clean, (though I outsource the cleaning as best I can), but baking I save for you, and housecleaning and laundry for my housekeeper. I have hunted, but it's not generally my thing, though I have taught others how to shoot and make sure they enjoy it. I ride motorcycles. I know how to sail, waterski, fish and more, and can navigate my way out of just about anything. I tried learning piano but never mastered it; I enjoyed playing drums for a good number of years. I tend to be very social and make friends very easy.What about you? It would be awesome if you were *positive*, playful, somewhat discriminating, open minded, and gave back when you have the opportunity. I don't live with my parents, so best if you don't either...:) You're a beautiful girl inside and out, so chances are you do your best to take care of what you have.Good news and bad news: I never smoked...I drink rarely and moderately. I will try just about anything, though golf and I have never really agreed with each other. Something fun! Seriously, people - some of you take yourself way too seriously :) What's a date? :) I think people have a tendency to do the same thing over and over again...dinner, drinks, coffee...lame! Do something different! Do something you enjoy. I don't care if it's doing an art walk, going to a concert, picnic or else, doing something creative, or having a new experience, something new and adventurous! You only live once. "dinner, drinks or coffee" is often a sign of a mediocre date, and spell doom.

  • Keelan

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    Hello! This will be my first time introducing myself on a dating site. My hobbies include competing in triathlons, marathons, playing guitar, and camping. I love trail running in the Fall and a good story while sitting next to a camp fire. My priorities are my two children and my career. Dinner, Coffee, Walk in the park

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