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Alfie, 36
United States, Illinois, East Alton

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About Me

If you hit Monday without a new good story to tell, you’ve wasted one of the weekends you’ve got left. I collect experiences worth having, people worth knowing, and stories worth telling...and I love to sample every edge of life. I'll crank the music and be the life of the party, but I’m also kind of a nerd who collects all manner of knowledge. I’m about the most social introvert you’re likely to meet - I’m far from shy and have a gregarious charm that makes me fairly memorable. I’m adventurous – not likely to land on the evening news, but I think it’s important to step outside your comfort zone.– what have you been doing that’s fun?I get along with a huge variety of “types” of people - high caliber people come in every flavor. I find it fascinating to get inside the head of somebody who has walked a very different path than me. I love to travel and really experience the local culture outside of the tourist areas. Sarcastic, witty and irreverent, if you can't laugh at yourself you won't fare well in my company.I'm pretty handy in the kitchen - food is one of my passions and well done can be just as sensual as sex. I love comparing notes with other foodies – what’s your favorite clever recipe? I love the architecture and style of big bridges and old buildings. I love serendipitously discovered cleverness.I'm in a happy poly relationship with my girlfriend, which means we have a deep bond but also date other people in a completely above the board fashion. The beauty of polyamorous / open relationships is I am just that; open to possibilities, open to adventures, and always open to more extraordinary people in my life - in any capacity.Simply put, I don't want to only love one person for the rest of my life; that doesn't feel natural to me. I have a lot of love to give and I love a lot of different characteristics and personality types that one person simply can't embody. I like to be engaged in different experiences and scenarios and prefer variety to allow for a fully stimulating life. I also believe that experiences outside of my relationship actually help me appreciate it all the more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Skiing Chinese French Italian Action Martial Arts Romance Sport Basketball Nascar
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