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Isa, 48
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Dating! Not what I remember. It is truly an adventure and it can also be quite comical. I don't date a lot due to some crazy experiences with first dates. I have become very selective. My friends would describe me as someone they can trust. I am thoughtful and a compassionate friend. I am very passionate about many causes (especially where children or animals are concerned), I am a great listener and conversationalist. I walk several times a week for exercise while listening to my ipod. It is a great time for thinking and reflecting. I am looking for something more than friendship. If you are looking for someone to 'hang out' with, please don't message me. Been there, done that and got a really crappy t-shirt! I would like to meet someone who is intelligent with a kind heart. Looking for a man who is determined and knows what he wants out of life. Has his own thoughts and ideas. A sense of humor is a good thing to have...Make me laugh! And be able to appreciate sarcasm, that is a bonus! I would like to meet someone who can carry on a conversation and enjoy a glass of wine or a beer. Loving Mexican food and a Margarita is a plus! Looking to meet someone that I can spend time with whether is is going to dinner, listening to a live band, going to the park to throw a frisbee, bike riding or wine tasting. If you do not have a picture I will not respond to *** smokers please. And, when someone asks you how much you drink and your response is "a few drinks" but what you really mean is a few drinks every night, please don't message me. Oh yeah...one more thing...having a soft spot for animals is a must! If you are interested, send me an ***'s see what happens!! I do not like first dates that feel like an interview. Keep it casual. Dating is hard enough without adding extra pressure to be all dressed up and on a quiz show! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Comedy
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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