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Glynda, 48
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Seeking the ONE that makes my heart race, my eyes light up, my knees weak with kisses. ONE who appreciates a good woman and knows how to treat her. The ONE that will be honest, respectfull, open minded. The ONE that can be my best friend, my lover, my companion. I'm a positive person, glass half full, try to find/see the best in people and situation's. I do feel that it takes the "bad" in life to learn too appreciate the "Good". I believe in Family, God, Respect, Honesty and that life is full of surprises. I find pleasure in the simple things of life. I have 3 children, my youngest, a teen age daughter that lives with me full time. She's my priority in life right now, though she is beginning to stretch her wings a bit. I'm hoping to find that special person to share things with over next couple years. I'm in no rush to a fully committed relationship at this time. I love to laugh, enjoy someone with a sense of humor. I'm a very passionate, open-minded LADY. I enjoy showing and receiving affection. If you can't handle that, Please pass me by! I have faults and accept faults in others. I enjoy good wine/ dinner to pizza and a beer, dressing up doing the town, to a nice quiet evening in. I love the water, boating, going to the beach, weekend getaways, travel, etc. I enjoy watching/going to some sport events. I like UL, not a fanatic, do try to catch the games. I would not pass up a picnic lunch on a beautiful day or just setting out on a deck, enjoying the company of friends. I don't mind at times to hit flea markets, yard sales and peddlers malls. I love music, mostly soft rock {70's 80's} LOVE classic rock and country, though my daughter has began sharing her own music choices. No matter how I try to like it, rap just doesn't do anything for me. I enjoy being active {rock climbing, sky diving and such activities are not on my agenda}. I enjoy getting out, just doing something. I'm not a couch potato, not seeking one either. Prefer someone that's somewhat active {not on the go ALL the time} but enjoys being out as well as in. Takes care of himself physically and mentally. Other preference: White/Caucasian. I'm attracted to FIT, tall men, dark hair. A man in a business suit; a man who knows how to cook and enjoys it; a man that can laugh at himself as well as with others; are just a few of many turns~on to me. I'm a non-smoker, I strongly prefer Non-tobacco users. I drink wine, beer, on occasion mixed drinks. Turn offs: large/lots of tattoos, facial piercings, heavy facial hair, one who lies, extreme weight/health, alcohol/drug/emotional issues, judgmental, rude/sarcastic, plays head games, secretly bi/gay. Just being honest. I think that's the basics... somewhat... There's much more to discover. I think it boils down to being a friend... isn't that what we all want/need?? Share a smile today!! First Meet,,, Too many variables... A park, A quiet club, lunch, dinner... Whatever is comfortable for both.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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