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Dena, 50
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

I am a mature, easy-going lady. Like anyone else my age, I have been through rough times. I think that I handle my own "baggage" rather well. I have had enough drama in the dating world, and I'm looking to have more relaxing, enjoyable experiences with a real man. "What is a real man?" you may ask. A real man is respectful, patient, and kind. He has integrity. He is masculine, but tender. He is confident and able to get what he wants out of life. He knows how to treat a lady and make her feel like a real woman. If you think you're up for the challenge, drop me a line... A first date happens after two people have a chance to get to know each other, and a spark of excitement is in the air. When a man is interested in me, he will not have any problem letting me know and asking to spend time with me. He might ask me to have dinner with him in a quiet restaurant with a romantic ambience. The lights will be low and soft music will be playing in the background. He will focus on my eyes as we share conversation about anything or nothing at all. He knows the art of subtlety, and brushes his hand against mine from time to time during the meal. Every move is so natural. He is smiling as he leans in to whisper in my ear some sweet compliment that makes me blush. I smell his definite male scent as our cheeks touch. His eyes tell me that he is interested in me and that he wants to see me again. We leave the restaurant, and he drives through the night. He tells me of his dreams and his goals. When he walks me to the door, he holds my hand. I feel like the princess in a fairy tale until he pulls me to him. His arms are strong, and in them I feel safe. This first kiss is sweet and tender, but with a hunger that he controls. I am intrigued, and wonder about the next kiss. With that, my new lover says good night. He leaves, and we both dream of the next time that we will meet.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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