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Gwendolyn, 47

United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Sun, 09 Aug 2026 06:42:58

About Me

Ahhhhh....and this is where the fun begins! Talking about self is such a difficult thing to do!I am "Mom" to 2 amazing, grown, married sons. I am family oriented but I also know how important it is to take some time for yourself, get out and about and just have fun and meet new people. The bar scene has gotten VERY old for me!! Honesty is a MUST!I LOVE the outdoors when the weather is warm...this is the perfect time for new adventures! There are just so many wonderful small miracles to discover out there! Over the years I have learned that you are never too old to try something new. Canoeing is a favorite for me as I enjoy the river and have done this for many years until this one. Long walks, lakes beaches and just enjoying the great outdoors is a must in this time of year. Cold months would require snuggles and a warm cozy fire......as I am the coldest natured person anyone has ever met! :)I like movies, conversation, beaches, long rides, love to dance, canoeing, snuggles, hugs and just smiling and having fun in general.I must state that I have been on this site before and I am aware of the craziness of it. I have heard some wild stories here and I have learned how to avoid the drama and the bs. I am all for great conversation and trying to get to know someone, but please....keep it REAL. If your intentions are just to meet someone for sex....by ALL means be sure and pass me by as I am not long out of a relationship and I am just not ready for anything like that at this time.*** UPDATE: I am FAR from being the biggest "B" you have ever met but please understand that I will NOT tolerate pushiness of ANY kind....if I am not ready to give you my number or *** wont get it and you will be blocked. I am generally a happy person and I am not here out of desperation....some of you have been on here for years......its not my plan. I am here to meet people and make some new friends...if something comes of it then great, by all means bring it on but it comes down to being MY choice. Just sayin!!If you have made it this far then you must have an interest, so feel free to say "hi". Why do people hit that they would want to meet you but then never say a word???? Makes no sense to me....Good Luck with your journey! This would depend on the parties involved. A first meeting should be something quick like a cup of coffee or a drink to chat a bit and see how things go. But hey.......its all about having an open mind.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cyndi from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hmm. I hate this part... I'm a sweet, kind girl who is extremely simple, happy, and easy going. I'm spontaneous and fun loving. I guess you could say I'm old fashioned, very loyal and honest. I have a huge heart and I love to by gifts just to see the smile on your face, that makes me happy. I'm only interested in dating one man, I'm not into someone who's juggling a few girls. I love cooking, cleaning, baking, eating, and working out. I'm addicted to laughing (and chocolate). I like a guy with a sense of humor. I have two daughters, they are 23 and 25, and I have two granddaughter's who I'm absolutely nuts over. They live out of state so I don't see them much but they are the loves of my life! I work in a middle school in special ed with children who have all types of disabilities and behaviors. I truly love my job and all the kids I work with. My kids are grown and I'm all alone now so I'm taking a chance and hoping to find someone on here who is genuine and not into playing games. I'm looking for someone who likes to joke around and laugh, someone who doesn't take himself too seriously, someone who likes to keep fit as well. I'm Italian so you have to like to eat, I have the appetite of an eighteen year old boy. Lol If you think you're interested, *** we can get to know one another. Without chemistry, it doesn't really matter what anybody writes. Something real quick to see if we have chemistry.

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  • Andi from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

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  • Jaylynn from Collinsville | Woman | 50 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello. I'm back. I am looking for someone to laugh with. Someone to enjoy life with. To become best friends with. I want someone passionate, funny, dependable, intelligent, loving. Someone with honor, a sense of humor who enjoys the simple things in life. I'm not looking for a hookup. Looks are not as important as that spark. I want that something special where our eyes sparkle when they meet. Someone both nice and wicked. I don't want someone who is a serial dater. I want someone looking for a real woman to build a life with. My ultimate goal is a life partner not a hookup for the evening. I will write more later. Open to suggestions. Coffee, drinks, dinner. Something that allows us to talk and see if there is something there worth exploring.

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