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Berry, 46
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Ok , I spend a lot of time with my family at home. I love to cook big meals and make them all happy. My goals are to give my daughter and my niece a good influence so when they are on their way to college they will know how to take care of their own. My biggest loss is the one of my grandson passing on july 2, ***, felt like someone tour my heart right out of my chest. I want to say , I feel like i am unique because when i am with a man, i give it my all , my whole heart and expect the same in return. Here goes the fun part. Ok the first date i always thought should be casual. Think about it if you go to a fancy restaurant to have dinner. you will be worried about am i eating with the right fork, am i going to spill something, Oh my god do i have something in my teeth lol.... oh and no movies either, if you want to get to know a person don't go to the movies you can't even talk there lol.... Ok you can meet for coffee or have a date where you meet in the park for a walk, so you can walk and talk. You can go for some drinks and shoot darts or pool. This is just me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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