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Andi, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Fishing French Portuguese Spanish Vietnamese Adult Animation Romance Spirituality
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  • Ginger from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Gemini
    Ginger

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Looking for the one I bet... I believe there is someone out there for each of us, good things take time and the best are worth the wait. I am a woman who knows what she wants and what is important in life. I have high standards and this limits my choices, I am looking for a man who has the same high standards as myself.Fitness and good health are very important to me. I would like to find a man who shares my interest in staying fit and one that leads an active lifestyle.I am independent, confidant, honest, caring, outgoing, outspoken, fun and sincere, no nonsense kind of woman. My pictures are recent and I am told I look better in person. ?????? I am beginning to wonder if there is anyone out there that actually likes to go have fun ?or just like to write about it and like to ask how you are every few days? How annoying. I am not looking for a free dinner date. I am self sufficient, take care of and support myself.. I understand there are some here looking for that but not all of us are. I prefer s brief first meeting not a date really, that way we can each go on our merry way and not waste either of our time. *** Just because you like sports does not qualify you as the athletic type....If you have the creepy pictures of yourself laying in bed, tasteless bathroom photos or pictures of your crotch - Please do not contact me!also if your lying about your age - TRUST ME we can tell by looking at your picture.. If you have to lie about it then there is a problem deeper than your age.Best of luck to all on here, If nothing else, I can say I have made a few more friends and have a lot of funny stories to share. Oh boy do I. LOL The first meeting is not a date, this is to get to know each other to see if there is chemistry and see if there are common interests, this should be in a place where is it quiet enough to talk without shouting to hear each other to see if there is enough interest for a real date. Something different is always nice. Where is the best place you have ever had a date?

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  • Chalice from Collinsville | Woman | 50 years old | Scorpio
    Chalice

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a pretty easy going person...not hard to please..good listener..loyal and loving.. love to stay active I try to work out at least ***times a week..like to hike although haven't had much time lately..I like going out but do not always have to.. love to stay in watch a movie and cuddle with my special someone..Have 2 beautiful children who are everything to me they are amazing!!!..I like all kinds of music (with the exception of rap) from whats on the radio to 70's rock..basically I just love music... On first date anything from dinner to having coffee with good conversation..No where noisy so we can start to get to know one another and see if we have somethings in common...of course chemistry is very important!!!...I think having a great conversation and communication is so very important in a relationship so if we can talk to one another off the bat its a good way to start..

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  • Erika from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Cancer
    Erika

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello, ok here goes. Ive been on and off of here for a couple of years.. dated here and there but nothing turned out. What im looking for... That great guy, someone that is willing to experience new places and things with me. my children are older so im free to pack up and leave for a day or weekend trip. Im starting my life over and want someone to share my thoughts, feelings my everythings with. Im looking for a best friend. maybe a partner in life. Not in a hurry for anything. this summer i want to camp, sit around a bonfire with a couple of beers, hit a couple concerts and more. it would be nice to have that special someone beside me. I like anything outdoors during the warmer months. I dont mind getting my hands dirty but dress up nice . Thats all for now. thanks for taking the time to check out my profile. have a great day! P.S. Give me a wildflower over a rose any day!!! maybe a walk, sit around a bonfire and talk.

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