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Andi, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Sat, 27 Jun 2026 10:22:13

About Me

I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Fishing French Portuguese Spanish Vietnamese Adult Animation Romance Spirituality
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    Domitila

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am currently separated because several years ago my husband suffered a major stroke and is now paralyzed. Our relationship is no longer husband and wife. I do remain a caretaker for him. I'm looking for someone to spend quality time with. My family is very important to me. I have three children who are grown and on their own. I love spending time with them but I also really like to travel and take weekend trips to the mountains or to the beach. I like staying busy. My friends say I am caring, kind, witty, and compassionate. I teach second graders and they keep me on my toes. I love my job.I would like to meet a man who is compassionate, intelligent, and driven. Dinner, coffee, music, talking... any or all!!!

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  • Doretta from Collinsville | Woman | 48 years old | Capricorn
    Doretta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Looking for someone who enjoys the outdoors, country, riding horses and camping. I dont play games, i dont argue i just feel like thats a complete waste of time. I am very old fashioned i like a man to be a man open my door, hold my hand, pick up the tab, treat me like a lady. Im not so concerned about looks, i'm more looking for the man who's there for me who wants to take care of me and keep me safe if that makes sense. Im not religious, but do believe in god and am respectful to all that. Horses are a large part of my life so If you dont ride horses we really have nothing in common. But if you do, holler at me and well go for a ride, of course after we see if theres chemistry. I am a one man woman, i dont really know if this site is for people who just want to date different people and not really settle with just one as it seems alot of people will chat then disappear. I am more the type who will text, talk, meet and continue to a relationship if it is mutual. After all, im on here to find my life companion, the one who wants to spend time with just me, and happily grow old together. Please i am not prejudice but don't date out of my race. Thanks and have a great day! Lets go somewhere and get to know each other, talk a lil bit then maybe if we feel theres chemistry there we can go do something fun...

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  • Makenna from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Pisces
    Makenna

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Me - I just returned to college to finish my degree in Business Management, & International Business Management. My plans are to travel the world until I am able to retire...I rescue wild turtles and stray dogs.My dream job would be a Queen of my own island.I love hunting and fishing but not wearing camo. I love just being spontaneous, pick somewhere on the map and make it happen...easy simpleFood is always a good choice, maybe a new sushi restaurant.

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