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Andi, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Tue, 23 Dec 2025 17:50:33

About Me

I have little patience for ***, but a little goofiness I can take all day!!! A real man, calm inside with a strong presence. I am new, very new at this. It is not my priority, so if you don't hear back from me...part of the reson is: I am a single mom of twin girls, 9 years old...but I will be in touch or politely let you know I am moving on.My goal is for the girls to understand what a loving relationship is between a man and a woman. I pray the damage is reversible, but I do NOT want them to make the same mistakes I have in the past. They need to see a strong, convicted, gentle, loving man with their Mommy.The guy will have to allow me, and he to catch each other's soul, through our eyes and there must be chemistry with a conviction of me being his and he being my first priority in life, and to lead side by side, with me to the most amazing front porch, where we will sit on that double rocker, hand in hand, reflecting on the life we were so graciously granted as another chance to recognize love, be loved, and love someone as it should be.I want in the end, for my girls to look at he and I and recognize how much we love each other. Is that too much to ask? Am I just a dreamer? I don't expect a smooth ride, but I do expect a champion who can still look at me at the end of the day, understand my depths, respect them, accept them and appreciate who I am, how I love and most everything about me. This is my first time out in 12 years, so I suspect there will be a few learning curves for me, however, I am no child, and find it refreshing that I am so bold writing this, and so sure of what I want for the first time in my life.Do you?;-) Deb First dates will be tough, I get all shy...especially if we have not met. Something casual...short time frame, glass of wine...and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a 47 year old divorced woman, and the Mother of two adopted Sons who I love with all my heart. Both boys are over the age of 18, and my youngest son has special needs. I am an empty nester, and this has been hard to get use to. I work as a home health care provider for the elderly with Dementia. It is a very stressful job and hope someday to find another career choice. The real me is somebody who is loving and kind, and finds joy in taking care of others. When I am in a relationship, I believe in monogamy and I am very loyal. I have been told that I have a huge heart. I like to think I take very good care of a man, and with out question, he would know that he is very loved and cared about. I am a romantic and love to hug and hold hands. I hope to find my soul mate, best friend and lover. I would like to marry again someday. My faith is important to me, as God has helped me through many difficult times. The first half of my life has been very difficult and trying. I want the second half to bring me joy and happiness. I am a lady in every sense of the word and like to be treated like one. I am not your one night stand. I like most types of music, but not big on rap. I am seeking a lifetime partner.P.S. I do not like motorcycles, camping, I love the beach, but can't swim, I am not big on amusement parks either.I am seeking men between the ages of ***years old! I ask nicely that you please don't message me if you are a twenty or thirty something. ( just to young for my age!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would enjoy meeting for a casual dinner and drinks with great conversation. I am very easy to get to know and make friends very easily. I accept that everyone has a past, and I am not one to place judgement.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hoping to find someone who can keep my smile going, become my protector, best friend and ultimately my lover in a committed relationship.Happy Fishing To All DO NOT CONTACT ME IF:1. you are "separated" and live with your wife/girlfriend/mother2. have no intentions of meeting3. NO PIC, NO CHATTINGWhat is it with the hiding of your profile?If I dont respond, I apologize, you are probably not what I am looking for. First meetings are awkward...coffee/teapeople watching on a patio

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