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Nydia, 48
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

I have a sense of wonder and a sparkle in my eyes. I smile easily and often. I am a thinker. To talk to interesting people, to hear what motivates them, moves them, what's in their hearts and their minds. I am good at making people feel good. At empathizing. At finding the positive in most anything. You are happy, intelligent. You are at least a little affectionate. Well, maybe more than a little. Perhaps you are captivatingly intelligent, deep, and can sweep me away with your mind, your wordsPerhaps you have a wonderful spirit and energy - you understand things, know things, feel thingsPerhaps you are charming and can coax me into adventuresPerhaps you are simply irresistible

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Funk American Chinese Thai Vietnamese Adult Documentary War Boxing Tennis
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  • None from Collinsville | Woman | 40 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-43

    Hi! My name is None. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Collinsville, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Sharonda from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

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  • Payton from Collinsville | Woman | 46 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I believe in.... A chance to have that happy ever after that there is someone for everyone. I want to find that person that will make me tingle from my head to my toes just by looking into eachothers eyes. I believe in...Having fun and enjoying life (leave the drama where it belongs in the past) live for the moment and just let things happen as they come. We should all follow our hopes and dreams and be able to share that with someone special.I am a fun loving, easy going person. I enjoy sports (baseball and football)but I do think that watching them in person is sooo much better then on TV... unless im cuddling.I like to spend nice days out of the house-why waste it sitting in. Have to admit though I like a good rain storm... the rain drops hitting the windows sometimes sounds like sweet music.I enjoy days at the beach and nights sitting on a blanket in the sand looking at the stars.I like to travel when I have the time (VEGAS...baby). My goal in life is to see all 50 states.I listen to all kinds of music and if I can sing along that's even better.*WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** Meet some place to enjoy some nice conversation and a drink. Get to learn about each other and hopefully make a connection.

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