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About Me

I'm very grounded and down to earth...and yes, I too don't like drama! I am able to hold a conversation and listen well. For the most part I'm a pretty quiet person and would choose home life to the night life any day of the week. I love to travel (love Caribbean Islands) when my work schedule allows it. I'm a sun/water person, anything on the water, boating, snorkeling and fishing (yes, I can bait my own hook!) I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty. I'm a loyal, considerate, compassionate, trustworthy, honest person. I'm sure there are a few more adjectives to describe me but that will give you something to discover.I'm looking for someone who is looking for a relationship, not just a date. I think we are old enough to know if we click or not. The thing is... it has to be a mutual thing. If it doesn't click... let's part ways and it was so nice to meet you. I believe in being upfront and honest with a person. I'm a one guy woman and am looking for a one woman guy, you can say I'm a bit old fashion, imagine that! If you have a drinking problem or are married… please do not respond, as I am not much of a drinker and do not like the bar life and do not want to sit across from your wife to have her sign the divorce decree. Please be honest! I am looking for a monogamous relationship! Drinks in a public place next to the exit door! :-)~

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sorrel

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a down to earth girl looking for her best friend. I am simple, and definitley not high maintence. I am outgoing, fun, love to laugh, be silly, piggy back rides LOL... enjoy the outdoors...take me fishing LOL..Looking for someone who is honest, sincere, romantic, affectionate, willing to try new things, and must love animals..can communicate, and share their feelings, cheaters need not respond been there done that, I wouldn't do it to you so I dont expect it to be done to me..I look at the positives in life not the negatives. I love being outside, I stop and smell the roses as it might not be there the next time you walk by. I notice the little things in life and look at them in a different perspective. I love sunsets and sunrises, waterfalls, hiking in the woods looking for wildlife...always willing to learn and try new things...outdoorsy guy...life is an adventure go for it... looking for someone who wants to share the things they like as for I to share the things I enjoy, and think it would be a fun and interesting life......and always best of luck to all!!!!OK UPDATE GUYS....I don't need to be in a relationship..Would I like to be in a relationship Sure! I am not looking for someone whom isn't just looking not to be single anymore, just to say oh I'm with someone..I am very independent, and don't NEED a man, but WANT a man...I Want that butterfly feeling that I can't wait to see that person, or talk to them about our days....I want that ahh haaa feeling...maybe its all a fairy tale, but it's my fairy tale..and a girl can dream can't she..I know what I want, and will look till I find it no matter how long it takes. I'm sure it will be alot of fun in the mean time, but when its there I will know..I have searched my soul, and know the person I am looking for, attraction is important, but also what the person derives from. Honesty, compassion, affection, comunication, and most of all faithful...I thought I would add a bit more to my profile, as it is what I am looking for and what this girl deserves..we all deserve the most in life, and that is what I am after...so if this is something your after send me an ***, and see what the journey leads to...and as always best of luck to all in this adventure we call life...

  • Neoma

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Had fished with my dad all my life, but our first fly fishing trip... with my dad a few years ago.I went right out into the river with my hip boots on ready to take it on and cast, my reel flew off my rod. I spent the next 45 minutes trying to just stand up in the river and save my reel, making a rats nest out of my line. Wanted to quit. Next day, we went out with a**** SOB guide, who told me, "when reeling in a fish, it's like a dance with your partner, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow." Really? And you won't marry your girlfriend of 8 yrs...are we really going to get a fish?"I out fished them both, an amazing fishing trip....and that weekend also taught me a lot about life and relationships. MyThat was mine and my dad's last fishing trip.My 30 yr. old secretary told me that a fish story on a dating site wasn't good. What? I believe it says a lot...in a realtionship sometimes you lead and sometimes you follow, you have frustration but you don't quit, a little hook doesn't mean you won't catch a big fish, the bait you use is not more important than the strength of your line, and that you need to be present every minute because you never know if you'll ever have that opportunity again. I thought it said it all but, ok fine, I'm a therapist, clinical director and owner of a mental health agency. I love to fish and camp and do that often. Enjoy cooking, but no just for myself but with someone else, am easy going, and really don't need an agenda to have fun and laugh everyday. Whatever we decide will be best for both of us.

  • Aveline

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Looking for a good man...looking for a man who wants to stand by one woman not one who wants a one night stand..Just recently moved back to the area...want to enjoy life to it's fullest. My children are grown so I am ready to live again......not looking for a drunk or an abusive #$$...looking for the guy that still opens a door for a lady, puts his hand at her back to escort her...want someone who likes to hold hands, kiss. Nothing more important then that kiss that makes your toes curl...Well if you think this is you drop me a line....,PS...not looking for phone sex, text sex, so if that's what you're looking for please keep looking..don't mess with this Texan... Meet for a drink listen to music talk and see if that kiss makes your toes curl...lol

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