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Sharonda, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Fri, 28 Nov 2025 10:32:25

About Me

Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a pretty easy going person...not hard to please..good listener..loyal and loving.. love to stay active I try to work out at least ***times a week..like to hike although haven't had much time lately..I like going out but do not always have to.. love to stay in watch a movie and cuddle with my special someone..Have 2 beautiful children who are everything to me they are amazing!!!..I like all kinds of music (with the exception of rap) from whats on the radio to 70's rock..basically I just love music... On first date anything from dinner to having coffee with good conversation..No where noisy so we can start to get to know one another and see if we have somethings in common...of course chemistry is very important!!!...I think having a great conversation and communication is so very important in a relationship so if we can talk to one another off the bat its a good way to start..

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  • Evan from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a laid back lady who is searching for an attractive, well built (ie..In shape..muscular), educated, funny, sports nut..honest, loyal.MAN..who wants to treat his lady like he would like to be treated & more. I have no time for games or B.S.I am a straight shooter and expect the same..say what you mean & mean what you say! Must want to spoil& be spoiled! :)F/Y/I...I know being a "Smoker" turns off many people..but I am in the process of cutting back & my goalis to be smoke-free by the years end...worse case scenario....for what it's worth. ;)***Please note: There are times..many in fact where there isn't a mutual attraction..that being saidPLEASE don't *** I didn't respond to you...WE ALL..MYSELF INCLUDEDHAVE BEEN PASSED BY...It's nothing personal!!..C'EST LA VIE!!! BEST OF LUCK! :) Havin a drink..some convo & see if we click. It's not complicated!

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  • Gilberte from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a mom to three teenaged boys. I work full-time as well as part-time with children with special needs. I enjoy working out whenever I can and recently found I also enjoy yoga. Walking/jogging at least one 5K a month has become a goal of mine, along with a very good friend from high school.If you're a smoker (even one a day), I'm not interested. If you're a 'player', I'm not interested. I'm also not interested in dancing or camping. Excessive drinker?? No thanks. I'm a quiet, laidback woman who never seeks out the spotlight.

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