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Sharonda, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

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    I am looking for someone to share this adventure called life. I have a 13 year old son who is my life but we would love to add to that equation. You can *** *** Lets share this wonderful adventure together.

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  • Izetta from Collinsville | Woman | 46 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi guys - I'm taking a break from meetville for a while. Apparently I have to PAY to hide my profile - whatever. So feel free to browse, but I won't be responding to any communication until things calm down in my life a bit. Best of luck in your searches!I would like to be the reason someone looks down at their phone, smiles - and walks into a pole. I am a chilled out kinda gal who loves to travel to beaches, casinos, foreign countries, and natural wonders. I can make you laugh when I'm on, and I love to laugh. But then who doesn't? I have two awesome kids, but they really don't qualify as children since they're both in their 20s. I'm ultimately looking for a relationship. While I'm in no hurry to get there, if you're not looking for a relationship, we are not a match.I'm looking for an extremely laid back guy, who has time to date but wont smother me either. I love tattoos and bald heads, but neither are required. The only real requirements are you are single (in every way, and not recently divorced), must be able to support yourself comfortably (I do), and you aren't going to be too forward on the first few dates. I'm not really into cowboy-type guys. Nice teeth get extra bonus points. I am truly average size, not skinny, not fat - if you're a butt guy, you will like me. I'm not a party girl at all, and party guys don't really do it for me. So if you are chill, love to travel, enjoy staying in as much going out, and you know how to treat a woman, drop me a line!Don't forget these words of wisdom: An ounce of pretention is worth a pound of manure. I'm pretty game for anything. I always thought Dave and Busters was a good place to meet. They have decent food, and we can have some fun while we get to know each other, *** the usual 'interview' setting.

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  • Glynda from Collinsville | Woman | 48 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Seeking the ONE that makes my heart race, my eyes light up, my knees weak with kisses. ONE who appreciates a good woman and knows how to treat her. The ONE that will be honest, respectfull, open minded. The ONE that can be my best friend, my lover, my companion. I'm a positive person, glass half full, try to find/see the best in people and situation's. I do feel that it takes the "bad" in life to learn too appreciate the "Good". I believe in Family, God, Respect, Honesty and that life is full of surprises. I find pleasure in the simple things of life. I have 3 children, my youngest, a teen age daughter that lives with me full time. She's my priority in life right now, though she is beginning to stretch her wings a bit. I'm hoping to find that special person to share things with over next couple years. I'm in no rush to a fully committed relationship at this time. I love to laugh, enjoy someone with a sense of humor. I'm a very passionate, open-minded LADY. I enjoy showing and receiving affection. If you can't handle that, Please pass me by! I have faults and accept faults in others. I enjoy good wine/ dinner to pizza and a beer, dressing up doing the town, to a nice quiet evening in. I love the water, boating, going to the beach, weekend getaways, travel, etc. I enjoy watching/going to some sport events. I like UL, not a fanatic, do try to catch the games. I would not pass up a picnic lunch on a beautiful day or just setting out on a deck, enjoying the company of friends. I don't mind at times to hit flea markets, yard sales and peddlers malls. I love music, mostly soft rock {70's 80's} LOVE classic rock and country, though my daughter has began sharing her own music choices. No matter how I try to like it, rap just doesn't do anything for me. I enjoy being active {rock climbing, sky diving and such activities are not on my agenda}. I enjoy getting out, just doing something. I'm not a couch potato, not seeking one either. Prefer someone that's somewhat active {not on the go ALL the time} but enjoys being out as well as in. Takes care of himself physically and mentally. Other preference: White/Caucasian. I'm attracted to FIT, tall men, dark hair. A man in a business suit; a man who knows how to cook and enjoys it; a man that can laugh at himself as well as with others; are just a few of many turns~on to me. I'm a non-smoker, I strongly prefer Non-tobacco users. I drink wine, beer, on occasion mixed drinks. Turn offs: large/lots of tattoos, facial piercings, heavy facial hair, one who lies, extreme weight/health, alcohol/drug/emotional issues, judgmental, rude/sarcastic, plays head games, secretly bi/gay. Just being honest. I think that's the basics... somewhat... There's much more to discover. I think it boils down to being a friend... isn't that what we all want/need?? Share a smile today!! First Meet,,, Too many variables... A park, A quiet club, lunch, dinner... Whatever is comfortable for both.

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