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Sharonda, 49
United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a mature, easy-going lady. Like anyone else my age, I have been through rough times. I think that I handle my own "baggage" rather well. I have had enough drama in the dating world, and I'm looking to have more relaxing, enjoyable experiences with a real man. "What is a real man?" you may ask. A real man is respectful, patient, and kind. He has integrity. He is masculine, but tender. He is confident and able to get what he wants out of life. He knows how to treat a lady and make her feel like a real woman. If you think you're up for the challenge, drop me a line... A first date happens after two people have a chance to get to know each other, and a spark of excitement is in the air. When a man is interested in me, he will not have any problem letting me know and asking to spend time with me. He might ask me to have dinner with him in a quiet restaurant with a romantic ambience. The lights will be low and soft music will be playing in the background. He will focus on my eyes as we share conversation about anything or nothing at all. He knows the art of subtlety, and brushes his hand against mine from time to time during the meal. Every move is so natural. He is smiling as he leans in to whisper in my ear some sweet compliment that makes me blush. I smell his definite male scent as our cheeks touch. His eyes tell me that he is interested in me and that he wants to see me again. We leave the restaurant, and he drives through the night. He tells me of his dreams and his goals. When he walks me to the door, he holds my hand. I feel like the princess in a fairy tale until he pulls me to him. His arms are strong, and in them I feel safe. This first kiss is sweet and tender, but with a hunger that he controls. I am intrigued, and wonder about the next kiss. With that, my new lover says good night. He leaves, and we both dream of the next time that we will meet.....

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  • Henry from Collinsville | Woman | 47 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hoping to find someone who can keep my smile going, become my protector, best friend and ultimately my lover in a committed relationship.Happy Fishing To All DO NOT CONTACT ME IF:1. you are "separated" and live with your wife/girlfriend/mother2. have no intentions of meeting3. NO PIC, NO CHATTINGWhat is it with the hiding of your profile?If I dont respond, I apologize, you are probably not what I am looking for. First meetings are awkward...coffee/teapeople watching on a patio

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  • Makenna from Collinsville | Woman | 49 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Me - I just returned to college to finish my degree in Business Management, & International Business Management. My plans are to travel the world until I am able to retire...I rescue wild turtles and stray dogs.My dream job would be a Queen of my own island.I love hunting and fishing but not wearing camo. I love just being spontaneous, pick somewhere on the map and make it happen...easy simpleFood is always a good choice, maybe a new sushi restaurant.

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