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* For Starters* I am a mother of four and a grand mother to 2 with 2 more on the way. My life is all about them and making sure they grow and become whom the Good Lord intended them to be. I would like to find a Real Man; by this I mean a man that will accept me for whom I am no matter what. Continue reading if I haven't scared you off. I am a true romantic and would like to find my equal. I would like to find someone that can be open and honest about everything they are feeling. I find that intelligence to be very sexy... I would like to find someone that can hold a conversation in any subject. Growing up, my father always told me I was a jack of all trades and master of none. I love working with my hands and am often found making things or taking them apart to see how they work. I fell in love with Christian Grey and just like all the other women I set out to find my Christian. I do not want to find a man that is a push over nor do I want a mom-ma's boy...I would like to find someone that is strong yet has a gentle side.I have to be honest: I love God and all he has done for me, I thank Him everyday. God comes first in my life. I love my children and grand children but they cannot keep me warm on a chilly evening. Looking for a man that would like to curl up on the couch/sofa and watch a movie...or just lie down and watch the stars with me.Now for the look.... I would like to find someone that has little to no facial hair... 5 o'clock shadow YES!!!! Do not understand why but I do love a man's biceps.*note* extra points if you know Christian Grey and can tell me about his life. Surprise Me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

  • Cira

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi there! I love the outdoors, walking, hiking, bonfires, gardening,etc., that sort of thing. I'm not really into the Bar scene, prefer more down to earth things now. I'm a Nurse Assistant, I love my job, not many of us can say and actually mean that, but in this case I do. I like being the one who often times makes that little bit of diffrence in people's lives,,I love music, all types of music. My favorite is old school rock & roll (80's), and Country..I'm always open to listen to anything other than that though. I think a great first date would be getting together for coffee,( or whatever your choice in beverages is) I don't know about you, but I know me, and I'm apt to be nervous, and the "date" would be relatively short, sort of a "meet & greet", that way no-ones under the gun so to speak.

  • Nigelia

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love Rock, R & B, depending on my mood. Enjoy the beach tremendously, but dont have enough time for it right now. Would love to meet some new friends, and maybe a boyfriend, serious relationship. Please no one who is bigotted, racist..I have a very diverse family and only open minded people can truly appreciate how great they are...:) My friends know they can count on me..I will do whatever I can for them, and I'm always trying to make them smile. Laughter is very important to me, if I aint having fun, I'm not there. I need a gentleman, but someone who can also put me in my place from time to time, as I've had to be a strong, independent woman, for a loooooong time..so, sometimes, I think I know it all..HOWEVER, I really know I don't! I view myself as a challenge, not a problem....lol I've got an easy going nature 99% of the time, but I can be a bit of a hot head, for all of 15 minutes, then, my common sense kicks in, and I'm practical and understanding once again. I'm passionate, to a fault almost...in everything I do. My boys are grown, and creating their own lives, I do have grandchildren, which are my heart, but I need the closeness and intimacy of a partner. Love the kids, family, friends and g-babies, but, I am missing that someone special. I've got a "different" job, which I love tremendously, and I plan on being with the company till I retire. When men find out what I do, most get the wrong impression of me, and others say,,,"well, its a job" ..neither are acceptable for me. Its now my chosen career. Update::: the "other kind of job...well it didn't work out..so I've been in Healthcare billing for a bit now.....it can be boring, but I'm good at it and need a job... So............the next step is up to you:) OH... and whom ever can tell me what song I'm thinking of...I'm sure we're supposed to be together forever....I call it "White Trash Serenade".... and it was very very popular several years ago...a duet by a man & woman....??!!!??? hahahaha first date...dinner,drinks, walk on the beach...alot of talking..

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