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About Me

Yuck! I hate essay questions. And I'm not good at writing long, flowery speeches that nobody's interested in reading. Sigh..OK,here we go: I'm a single mom ***yr old boy. I work full-time in retail. I'm not necessarily looking to get married although I've never tried it. I've heard it's not so awful- depends who you ask, I suppose. I'm just looking for that "right" someone who is willing to put up with me for the next few whatevers. I'm not interested in the bar scene - been there/done that - I'm sure that it's pretty much the way I left it. I'm a Recovering alcoholic ***yrs. If you're a weekend-warrior ( or weekday), I'm not interested. An occasional, social drink is fine. You know which one you are. I'm very comfortable with quiet nights at home, watching TV or a movie, although I would NEVER miss an opportunity for a dinner out. I like pretty much anything on the radio but Country and RAP. I'm not into soaps - day or night-time. I don't really have any "hobbies". I'm saving that for when I'm REALLY old, my son is grown and I'm retired - so, probably not any time soon. I usually watch stuff like the news, HGTV, HLN, TMZ, Investigation Discovery, History Channel ...I guess my hobby is knowing what's going on. ; ) First Date?Ok - anywhere and anything I don't have to pick up at the grocery store, cook ,and clean up after. Sounds good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Gwendolyn

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ahhhhh....and this is where the fun begins! Talking about self is such a difficult thing to do!I am "Mom" to 2 amazing, grown, married sons. I am family oriented but I also know how important it is to take some time for yourself, get out and about and just have fun and meet new people. The bar scene has gotten VERY old for me!! Honesty is a MUST!I LOVE the outdoors when the weather is warm...this is the perfect time for new adventures! There are just so many wonderful small miracles to discover out there! Over the years I have learned that you are never too old to try something new. Canoeing is a favorite for me as I enjoy the river and have done this for many years until this one. Long walks, lakes beaches and just enjoying the great outdoors is a must in this time of year. Cold months would require snuggles and a warm cozy fire......as I am the coldest natured person anyone has ever met! :)I like movies, conversation, beaches, long rides, love to dance, canoeing, snuggles, hugs and just smiling and having fun in general.I must state that I have been on this site before and I am aware of the craziness of it. I have heard some wild stories here and I have learned how to avoid the drama and the bs. I am all for great conversation and trying to get to know someone, but please....keep it REAL. If your intentions are just to meet someone for sex....by ALL means be sure and pass me by as I am not long out of a relationship and I am just not ready for anything like that at this time.*** UPDATE: I am FAR from being the biggest "B" you have ever met but please understand that I will NOT tolerate pushiness of ANY kind....if I am not ready to give you my number or *** wont get it and you will be blocked. I am generally a happy person and I am not here out of desperation....some of you have been on here for years......its not my plan. I am here to meet people and make some new friends...if something comes of it then great, by all means bring it on but it comes down to being MY choice. Just sayin!!If you have made it this far then you must have an interest, so feel free to say "hi". Why do people hit that they would want to meet you but then never say a word???? Makes no sense to me....Good Luck with your journey! This would depend on the parties involved. A first meeting should be something quick like a cup of coffee or a drink to chat a bit and see how things go. But hey.......its all about having an open mind.

  • Cira

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi there! I love the outdoors, walking, hiking, bonfires, gardening,etc., that sort of thing. I'm not really into the Bar scene, prefer more down to earth things now. I'm a Nurse Assistant, I love my job, not many of us can say and actually mean that, but in this case I do. I like being the one who often times makes that little bit of diffrence in people's lives,,I love music, all types of music. My favorite is old school rock & roll (80's), and Country..I'm always open to listen to anything other than that though. I think a great first date would be getting together for coffee,( or whatever your choice in beverages is) I don't know about you, but I know me, and I'm apt to be nervous, and the "date" would be relatively short, sort of a "meet & greet", that way no-ones under the gun so to speak.

  • Meggie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am an animal lover. I own two horses and five dogs. I enjoy boating. One of things I enjoy is going to amusement parks. I like to dance and listen to music. BBQ with friends, and than spend some quality time with my family. I have a college education and am considering going back to complete my masters degree. I have a daughter who lives at home and is my pride and joy. She can make many people laugh. As far as myself, I am outgoing and I speak my mind. I like people who confident enough to speak their mind and not sugar coat things. I feel communication is essential in any type of relationship. I treat people with respect, and remain loyal to who I am with. I do expect honesty. I am not looking for someone who's life revolves around sex. Too me sex is for intimacy when two people share that intimacy. My ideal first date I would be somewhere that you don't feel as if your on display. The perfect first date would be over a cup of coffee or meet somewhere that you could be yourself. There is plenty of time for dinner and movies. It all begins with communication and where both parties feel comfortable meeting for the first time.

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