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About Me

Yuck! I hate essay questions. And I'm not good at writing long, flowery speeches that nobody's interested in reading. Sigh..OK,here we go: I'm a single mom ***yr old boy. I work full-time in retail. I'm not necessarily looking to get married although I've never tried it. I've heard it's not so awful- depends who you ask, I suppose. I'm just looking for that "right" someone who is willing to put up with me for the next few whatevers. I'm not interested in the bar scene - been there/done that - I'm sure that it's pretty much the way I left it. I'm a Recovering alcoholic ***yrs. If you're a weekend-warrior ( or weekday), I'm not interested. An occasional, social drink is fine. You know which one you are. I'm very comfortable with quiet nights at home, watching TV or a movie, although I would NEVER miss an opportunity for a dinner out. I like pretty much anything on the radio but Country and RAP. I'm not into soaps - day or night-time. I don't really have any "hobbies". I'm saving that for when I'm REALLY old, my son is grown and I'm retired - so, probably not any time soon. I usually watch stuff like the news, HGTV, HLN, TMZ, Investigation Discovery, History Channel ...I guess my hobby is knowing what's going on. ; ) First Date?Ok - anywhere and anything I don't have to pick up at the grocery store, cook ,and clean up after. Sounds good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jaquelin

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Trying a different approach....YOU:Divorced (prefer)A dad to school-age children (prefer)Age 36 to 495'8"-smoker (must)Drinker (must)SarcasticNight owl as opposed to morning personNo vegetariansNo quiet guysNot religiousMust have a profile pictureMore than one picture postedOn same custody weekend as myself (must)Wants more kids =-4 times per week, mostly cardio Definitely someplace public, and someplace where you can hear each other talking. Most likely a drink...not dinner, not a movie - that's too formal for me, and too long if 2 people aren't feeling it.

  • Odalys

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    i am a straight forward, what you see is what you get type of woman. I love country music and two step dancing, like to get out occasionally for a drink and dancing, love to stay at home also, movies, doing crafty things or drawing. Looking for my best friend that i can talk to about anything, honest and sincere a must...want to know anything else...ask me. i think it depends on what we have in common...something where we would have time to really get to know each other, talk...quiet atmosphere...lunch, or coffee, see if there is chemistry then plan a real date.

  • Nigelia

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love Rock, R & B, depending on my mood. Enjoy the beach tremendously, but dont have enough time for it right now. Would love to meet some new friends, and maybe a boyfriend, serious relationship. Please no one who is bigotted, racist..I have a very diverse family and only open minded people can truly appreciate how great they are...:) My friends know they can count on me..I will do whatever I can for them, and I'm always trying to make them smile. Laughter is very important to me, if I aint having fun, I'm not there. I need a gentleman, but someone who can also put me in my place from time to time, as I've had to be a strong, independent woman, for a loooooong time..so, sometimes, I think I know it all..HOWEVER, I really know I don't! I view myself as a challenge, not a problem....lol I've got an easy going nature 99% of the time, but I can be a bit of a hot head, for all of 15 minutes, then, my common sense kicks in, and I'm practical and understanding once again. I'm passionate, to a fault almost...in everything I do. My boys are grown, and creating their own lives, I do have grandchildren, which are my heart, but I need the closeness and intimacy of a partner. Love the kids, family, friends and g-babies, but, I am missing that someone special. I've got a "different" job, which I love tremendously, and I plan on being with the company till I retire. When men find out what I do, most get the wrong impression of me, and others say,,,"well, its a job" ..neither are acceptable for me. Its now my chosen career. Update::: the "other kind of job...well it didn't work out..so I've been in Healthcare billing for a bit now.....it can be boring, but I'm good at it and need a job... So............the next step is up to you:) OH... and whom ever can tell me what song I'm thinking of...I'm sure we're supposed to be together forever....I call it "White Trash Serenade".... and it was very very popular several years ago...a duet by a man & woman....??!!!??? hahahaha first date...dinner,drinks, walk on the beach...alot of talking..

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