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United States, Illinois, Collinsville

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About Me

Had fished with my dad all my life, but our first fly fishing trip... with my dad a few years ago.I went right out into the river with my hip boots on ready to take it on and cast, my reel flew off my rod. I spent the next 45 minutes trying to just stand up in the river and save my reel, making a rats nest out of my line. Wanted to quit. Next day, we went out with a**** SOB guide, who told me, "when reeling in a fish, it's like a dance with your partner, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow." Really? And you won't marry your girlfriend of 8 yrs...are we really going to get a fish?"I out fished them both, an amazing fishing trip....and that weekend also taught me a lot about life and relationships. MyThat was mine and my dad's last fishing trip.My 30 yr. old secretary told me that a fish story on a dating site wasn't good. What? I believe it says a lot...in a realtionship sometimes you lead and sometimes you follow, you have frustration but you don't quit, a little hook doesn't mean you won't catch a big fish, the bait you use is not more important than the strength of your line, and that you need to be present every minute because you never know if you'll ever have that opportunity again. I thought it said it all but, ok fine, I'm a therapist, clinical director and owner of a mental health agency. I love to fish and camp and do that often. Enjoy cooking, but no just for myself but with someone else, am easy going, and really don't need an agenda to have fun and laugh everyday. Whatever we decide will be best for both of us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Caribbean Irish Spanish
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    I'm very grounded and down to earth...and yes, I too don't like drama! I am able to hold a conversation and listen well. For the most part I'm a pretty quiet person and would choose home life to the night life any day of the week. I love to travel (love Caribbean Islands) when my work schedule allows it. I'm a sun/water person, anything on the water, boating, snorkeling and fishing (yes, I can bait my own hook!) I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty. I'm a loyal, considerate, compassionate, trustworthy, honest person. I'm sure there are a few more adjectives to describe me but that will give you something to discover.I'm looking for someone who is looking for a relationship, not just a date. I think we are old enough to know if we click or not. The thing is... it has to be a mutual thing. If it doesn't click... let's part ways and it was so nice to meet you. I believe in being upfront and honest with a person. I'm a one guy woman and am looking for a one woman guy, you can say I'm a bit old fashion, imagine that! If you have a drinking problem or are married… please do not respond, as I am not much of a drinker and do not like the bar life and do not want to sit across from your wife to have her sign the divorce decree. Please be honest! I am looking for a monogamous relationship! Drinks in a public place next to the exit door! :-)~

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hoping to find someone who can keep my smile going, become my protector, best friend and ultimately my lover in a committed relationship.Happy Fishing To All DO NOT CONTACT ME IF:1. you are "separated" and live with your wife/girlfriend/mother2. have no intentions of meeting3. NO PIC, NO CHATTINGWhat is it with the hiding of your profile?If I dont respond, I apologize, you are probably not what I am looking for. First meetings are awkward...coffee/teapeople watching on a patio

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