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Benita, 49

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UPDATE:I do not date black men or guys over 54...You gotta be able to laugh it's a huge part of who I am also looking for a guy who tells the truth, honesty is as essential as breathing for me. I am looking for a guy who likes to get out and do stuff bike riding, antiques, anything as long as we have fun.I like to read, do gardening biking, hiking,antiques,flea markets,concerts, love movies and music and just some one who gets me.I want some one who wants to include me in their life.I work a lot of hours through out the week but if i find a great guy i will re-arrange my schedule to spend more time with him could it be you? I joined the gym trying to get there several times a week would love to find someone who likes to exercise of some kind walking, bike riding ect. with me. a few things you can write to me about i stole from someone elseWhat turns you on/off In Life?What sound do you love ?Do you have any tattoos. why or why not ?Do you have any phobias ?Describe your perfect vacation ? How many times a week is normal to have sex ?What is your favorite season and why ?What is the first thing you do in the morning ?Olny 55% of pepole can raed tihs. I cdn'uolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The pheonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rseearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? Yaeh and I was awlyas tghuat slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs, palce it in yuor porflie. ;)If your really with your soul mate expect this:(A)ccepts you as you are(B)elieves in "you"(C)alls you just to say "HuI"(D)oesn't give up on you(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)(F)orgives your mistakes(G)ives unconditionally(H)elps you(I)nvites you over(J)ust "be" with you(K)eeps you close at heart(L)oves you no matter what(M)akes a difference in your life(N)ever Judges(O)ffers support(P)icks you up(Q)uiets your fears(R)aises your spirits(S)ays nice things about you(T)ells you the truth when you need it(U)nderstands you(V)alues you(W)alks beside you(X)-

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Okie dokie...to be successful it says to ***talk about my hobbies...animals, decorating, art, vintage, repurposing stuff, walking, reading ***talk about my goals..I'd be happy to live till I retire and then some.... ***talk about yourself and what makes you unique..hmmm..If we are ALL unique, then none of us are really unique, right? I guess I'm very young spirited but mature...LOVE animals & try to help them (feed strays, rescue, etc...) Since helping an animal gets you nothing physical or monetary in return, I do think it is a good characteristic in a human being. ***Music...I'm flexible. I listen to K-LOVE normally, but I like pop, and even some hard rock (KISS) ALSO..here is another thing about me..I am really "upfront". I've learned in my old age (and yea, I know I'm old) that sometimes you have to look in the mirror and say "I'M GREEDY, I'M OLD, I'M FOOLISH, I'M FAT"..or WHATEVER the issue may be...and literally become disgusted with yourself..and either ACCEPT it or CHANGE it. But don't live in DENIAL about it...I see too many men in my age group posing with no shirts (WHY???) with beer guts hanging out stating they have an "athletic" build. In what universe?? In this area, I'd say 1% of men over the age of 35 actually have an "athletic" build (which means your waist is at least 10" smaller than your chest and you are muscular and toned) No one is perfect..I don't expect it or want it and its too hard to maintain..but I do think we should try to take care of ourselves and there has to be mutual physical attraction. It is SUCH a double standard that women need to look like "Barbie" but men can look like crap and we just have to suck it up and deal with it. NOTE: Also, if you live further than an hour (approx) away from me, UNLESS you plan on doing all the driving, I doubt it's going to work out. It's just too difficult to date someone who can't really "be there" for you for the little things...good luck to everyone. After a first meeting (which should be brief and in public) I think the "date" should be something agreed on by both parties. If you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Good luck. Also, I may not get on here except for once a week or so; therefore, if you want me to get in touch w/you please leave another way (i.e. texting?)

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I\'m a hopeless romantic looking for love. My hobbies are making jewelry, catching up on my TV, and shopping. I need someone very special to stay with me and love me (and my interests).

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Blackhawks, Bears and Cubs. I'll cheer for the Sox but my heart belongs to Wrigleyville :) in my free time it's me and my camera, me and my friends or all of the above. I'm career driven but keep time for fun and capable of seperating business and pleasure. I enjoy travel when time permits and love a road trip, after all the journey is half the fun. Coffee or****ails, conversation, mostly the conversation.

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