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Benita, 49

United States, Illinois, Collinsville

Offline, last seen Wed, 09 Sep 2026 22:06:03

About Me

UPDATE:I do not date black men or guys over 54...You gotta be able to laugh it's a huge part of who I am also looking for a guy who tells the truth, honesty is as essential as breathing for me. I am looking for a guy who likes to get out and do stuff bike riding, antiques, anything as long as we have fun.I like to read, do gardening biking, hiking,antiques,flea markets,concerts, love movies and music and just some one who gets me.I want some one who wants to include me in their life.I work a lot of hours through out the week but if i find a great guy i will re-arrange my schedule to spend more time with him could it be you? I joined the gym trying to get there several times a week would love to find someone who likes to exercise of some kind walking, bike riding ect. with me. a few things you can write to me about i stole from someone elseWhat turns you on/off In Life?What sound do you love ?Do you have any tattoos. why or why not ?Do you have any phobias ?Describe your perfect vacation ? How many times a week is normal to have sex ?What is your favorite season and why ?What is the first thing you do in the morning ?Olny 55% of pepole can raed tihs. I cdn'uolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The pheonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rseearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? Yaeh and I was awlyas tghuat slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs, palce it in yuor porflie. ;)If your really with your soul mate expect this:(A)ccepts you as you are(B)elieves in "you"(C)alls you just to say "HuI"(D)oesn't give up on you(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)(F)orgives your mistakes(G)ives unconditionally(H)elps you(I)nvites you over(J)ust "be" with you(K)eeps you close at heart(L)oves you no matter what(M)akes a difference in your life(N)ever Judges(O)ffers support(P)icks you up(Q)uiets your fears(R)aises your spirits(S)ays nice things about you(T)ells you the truth when you need it(U)nderstands you(V)alues you(W)alks beside you(X)-

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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