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Lavender, 47
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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About Me

Do you have a courage to think and believe what is unimaginable, and willingness to go on adventures of the mind that you might find dangerous or daunting as I do? Do you deal with sadness, fear, joy, anger - whatever comes up - in ways that are perceptive and flexible?I am free to express my passions about certain subjects with appropriate people....They say I am focused an flexible. I like making plans,but I am never a slave to the plan..."the best laid plans" fall off the tracks; when this happens, I clean up the train wreck and start over.People often think of me as disciplined and responsible, but I also know that I have something of a free spirit in me, and when this spirit moves me, off I go, following the impulse of the moment.Some days I want to hang out by myself, not answer the phone, and make the world go away. The next day I e-mail everyone, schedule lunch with a friend, and try to find an evening gathering to take part in. It may be the phases of the moon, or something I ate; some days are just like that....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Drawing / Painting Baseball Singing
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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