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Ara, 50

United States, Illinois, Charleston

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I am divorced, have no children, I am easy going, like all kinds of music. I have 3 dogs, that are my kids. They are not the little yippy ones, they are large. I love to laugh and make others laugh, not afraid to laugh at myself,or others! ( only if no one is getting hurt), I pretty well speak what is on my mind, although as I have gotten older, I do have more filters! Sometimes, the shock factor can be quite funny! I can be goofy, but also know when it is not appropriate! I am not one that likes to spend all my time shopping, in fact, I would rather do just about anything other than shop. I am very sensitive, compassionate, and have a great intuition once that bond is formed with my partner. I like reading, cooking, taking care of my house plants, playing with my dogs, listening to good live and recorded music, shooting pool, really too many things to list. I have a full time job that requires me to be able to filter out some of the b/s that people feed you. I am not looking for someone to take care of me or pay my way, I have worked since I was 13yrs old. (Although, it would be nice to hit the lottery and not have to)! I guess a good match for me would be someone to accept me for me, just as I accept him for him. He would have nice strong arms to hold me, be loving, caring, willing to discuss things that affect us. He would have a great sense of humor, not afraid to show affection. He would not be afraid to jump in and cook with me, or be against maybe horsing around and burning dinner a little. He would like bonfires, tailgates, cooking out, lying under the stars dreaming.(Now I think I'm just dreaming, someone wake me up) He doesn't have to be perfect by any means because, I'm not even close, don't claim to be. If I sound like someone you would like to know, message me, I don't bite.(unless you want me to!) lol! If you are looking for someone to change, keep moving. I am not here to change anyone, I just want to meet my Mr. Right. It seems like there are a lot of people on here that would just like to message and text *** ever meeting. I am here to meet in person and see if we have that chemistry. What about you? Whatever we decide!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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