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Zillah, 46
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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About Me

Hello -I believe I am an outgoing, energetic & fun person. I am involved in many things -- I work for a nonprofit but I also do a lot of consulting on the side. I'm creative and I'm political and somehow I've made those 2 worlds collide - in a good way. I'm on a few boards and I have a lot of good friends that I like to stay connected to, so I keep very busy. But, I've also learned the importance of staying fit, so I play golf and sail regularly in the summer, and in the winter I try to go skiing as much as I can (both downhill and cross country). I have 2 dogs, so I try to make the dog park a daily habit as well. My passion is cooking and love to try new recipes. Throwing a party for 40 people is one of those things I thrive on. I don't like cooking for just myself, but I AM getting better at it. Don't worry, I'm not always on the go, I also love my alone time to read, regroup and get organized. I do have a nurturing, nesting side to me too. Actually, I would love to start writing - I have many tales to tell... Now about you... (Huge added bonus if you'd like to cook for me too.) I don't have children of my own (other than my pets), but always thought I would some day, I just never found the right person to make that kind of commitment with. So I'd be completely supportive (in whatever way YOU would define that) if you have kids. I'm not into hunting or fishing, so holding up dead carcasses in your pictures really doesn't do it for me. I get it & I'm not a vegetarian (I love bacon & italian sausage too much to give it up), but if that's your thing, it'll just stay your thing!Thanks if you've read this far. Best of luck in your search to all who read this, but if any of what I've said appeals to you, shoot me a message. I look forward to furthering the conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Dance French South American Turkish
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