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Bernice, 48
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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About Me

Heureuse, bien dans ma peau et en paix avec moi-même, je suis à 2 ans de mes principaux objectifs de vie en planification d'une retraite active et lucrative. Actuellement, je travaille très fort pour y arriver. Je suis active, mature, autonome, honnête, fidèle, propre, simple, facile à vivre, bon sens de l'humour, positive, pas matérialiste, tendre, affectueuse, pas jalouse. Je suis du genre jeans et bière (quand je bois). Je suis une couche-tôt/lève-tôt. Pour moi, le respect de tous les droits (sains et équilibrés) pour tous est capital. Je fais attention à ma santé (ALIMENTATION, eau, sport, sommeil). Je suis en bonne condition physique. Ce que je déteste le plus au monde: la violence, la méchanceté, la malhonnêteté, l'abus, la jalousie, le manque de respect et les gens égocentriques. Mes devises: Ici... maintenant, être au lieu d'avoir, pardonne à la mesure que tu voudrais être pardonné J'aime le silence, les musiques douces, les musiques ***, mais j'écoute un peu de tout. J'aime cuisiner, essayer de nouveaux plats. J'aime les fruits de mer et le poisson. Je n'ai pas de télévision...En couple, il m'arrive de l'écouter coller sur mon chum (je regarde principalement ce qui me fait rire et des documentaires). Je cherche un partenaire de vie mature, qui vit au présent, qui est bon, qui a un caractère simple, qui est sociable, qui est fidèle, qui n'a pas de dépendance nuisible pour lui et les gens le côtoyant, qui n'est pas rancunier, qui n'est pas jaloux, qui n'est pas violent, qui n'est pas manipulateur, qui est ami des animaux, qui est conscient du pouvoir qu'on a sur sa santé, qui a une excellente hygiène corporelle et buccale, qui a réglé son passé, qui est en paix avec lui-même et qui a trouvé son équilibre dans la vie. Je désire partager mes activités principales avec ce conjoint : faire à manger, le ménage, les achats, VOYAGER, faire de la PLONGÉE, faire des road trip en MOTO (chacun la nôtre) et en motorisé (petit), etc. Je désire partager ma vie pour offrir autant que recevoir. Ma devise en couple: vivre et laisser vivre (dans le respect et l'honnêteté). Je comprends qu'on a tous besoin à l'occasion de son espace , moi la première, mais ma relation doit être basée sur le together. Dans ma vie, les relations sexuelles ont leurs places, mais le sexe pour le sexe, sans amour ,ce n'est pas mon genre. Je suis une passionnée dans tout ce que je fais, incluant les relations intimes. Je ne suis pas parfaitement bilingue, mais je serais très confortable d'être en relation avec un homme qui parle l'anglais plus que le français. SI TU LIS MA DESCRIPTION ET QUE TU NE TE VOIS PAS DANS MA VIE À 99%, S.V.P. ABSTIENS-TOI D'ESSAYER D'ENTRER EN COMMUNICATION AVEC MOI. AINSI, NOUS NE PERDRONS PAS NOTRE TEMPS, NI TOI NI MOI!!!! MERCI!20 ans de vie commune, 2 conjoints...Je sais ce que je veux et ce que je ne veux pas. Je préfère être seule que mal accompagnée jusqu'à ce que...Je ne suis pas pressée de rencontrer celui qui partagera ma vie, à moins que tu sois prêt à m'attendre! Pour le moment, je ne suis pas très disponible (job, études, gym). À partir d'aout ***, j'aurai plus de temps. Mais ce sera au début de ***, que j'aurai vraiment tout mon temps pour profiter de la vie et être en relation d'intimité jour et nuit, corps et âme...Pour toi qui me cherche aussi...À bientôt! ;-) Pour ce qui est de la première rencontre et de la description de mes défauts...On verra! :-)

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    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

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    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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