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Elayne, 49
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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About Me

I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Baseball
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  • Affton from Charleston | Woman | 47 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Let me start by saying if you are seperated and not totally DIVORCED, It might be a good idea for you to be HONEST in the beginning because if you will LIE about that what else will you lie about...Just when you think you know someone they start the GAMES!!!! PEOPLE PLEASE lets be real, if your on here looking for a friendship and to find love then please dont give me your B.S. I have enough B.S. in my past and sure don't need anymore! So with that said if you cant be HONEST with me up front then PLEASE just pass me by!!!! WHAT IS UP WITH ALL THE PICTURES OF YOU GUY'S IN YOUR BATHROOM???? JUST ASKING?? My hobbies consist of water sports, horses, long rides on a Harley....I am very out doorsie type of person...I like to hunt, fish and of course LOVE SHOPPING...I am spoiled (thanks to my parents) i am the baby in my family and sometimes that can be a problem when looking for someone to love me! I am not a GAME PLAYER!!! I HATE GAMES!!!NO DRAMA NO GAMES!!!! Life is beautiful and i love it! My kids are my life but they dont run my life!!I am generally an all around country girl, down to earth and i can be silly at times...I do enjoy country and western music and i like to dance..I will listen to all types of music...I LOVE my chick flicks...In case you guy's aren't getting it...I AM A SMOKER! I am not ready to quit as of yet and when i get ready it will be because i am ready....So if smoking bother's you PLEASE don' t WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS!!!! I have not been in a serious relaionship in over 3 years and because of that i found me again and i know what i like and don't like, know what i want and don' t want...I will not settle...I deserve to be happy just as you do and the next person does...I am very easy to get along with but you don't want to get on my bad side! I truly love God, Life, My kids and my family....I would love to find that right someone to get to know and grow old togeher with!.....I couldn't say perfect because there is no such thing as a perfect person! If i am someone you know you would like to get to know and become best friends and lovers with then please lets chat otherwise don' t waste my time!

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  • Avianna from Charleston | Woman | 46 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I enjoy meeting people, live music, dancing. I just started running again so I am excited about the summer coming up and plan to run in some 5Ks.

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  • Deandrea from Charleston | Woman | 49 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I truly enjoy all the adventures life has to offer from camping, traveling, fine dining, theatre, hikes, boating, fishing, ziplining, gambling, or just hanging out with a good movie...I also enjoy staying very active. I am dedicated and committed to staying fit,working very hard to look the best I can, I teach aerobics classes and work out several times per week. I am hard-worker, and very energetic, I have a good sense of humor, thoroughly enjoy a good laugh (even at myself) really like making others laugh too. Positive attitude, fun loving and try to live life to its fullest, I can rest when I'm dead. I love to meet new people, and I have been accused of being socially active LMAO (like that's a bad thing) .Not chicky,no drama, I work in a maintenance dept, and run shipping/receiving. I can swing a hammer and hang out with the guys, it's true, I can even use power tools, but can dress up and rock the dance floor in a little black dress,and enjoy being treated like a woman. I wear many hats and love it. Jeans, sweats,tool pouch,little black dresses, love my leather and riding my Harley. I am not a hard core biker chick, and have no tattoos, just love to ride:) Not your typical girl.Looking for someone to share laughs with, would like to meet my partner in crime(you know someone to drive the getaway car). LMAO I am a very caring compassionate, giving, honest, fun, and loyal person and would like someone that is the same. I know how to treat others, to make them feel special, just looking for the same in return. I have no time to tolerate drama or negativity, living life to its fullest, and grabbing every adventure that I can.The most valuable gift you can give is TIME so don't waste it!!This profile is ME not FAT or FAKE.Sure is Tough being 20 years old trapped in this 49 year old body. LMAOGood luck with your search. Keep Fishing, laughing, and having FUN, Life is Good!!See me later! I say lets meet for a drink, walk, or coffee to see if there is an interest to go on a first date.

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