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Elayne, 49
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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About Me

I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Baseball
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm honest, caring and optimistic person, and I'm looking for a man with the same qualities. He has to be a real man, and know how to treat a woman. I'm very romantic, and love flowers. Also, I like beach, shopping, ski and movies. I think that we don't need to have the same hobbies, and I like to try new things. I guess on first date is best thing just meet for coffee or drink. A lot of people look difference in the real live, then they on the pictures. If we like each other then we can meet for dinner, movies, shows, dancing or something else.

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  • Latoria from Charleston | Woman | 48 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    A good sense of humor is highly attractive. Looking for someone to laugh with, live life with ( the exciting and the everyday) and seek out new adventures with. I have been divorced for 2 years and finally feel settled into some sense of normal. I have 3 great girls – all in their teens….YIKES!! I split time equally with their father. Love how their personalities are molding them into beautiful, kind and intelligent women.! Great memories! Would love to travel if I had more time…..Love the tropical getaway. Snorkeling, beach volleyball, umbrella drinks and sunbathing are great wherever you are!Enjoy all types of music, rap is not my thing. Enjoy seeing live music, always willing to try something new. Enjoy local festivals and the music venues in the summer. If it is good music, you will find me on the dance floor. Love to read, give me a good book and I will stay up all night to finish it….movies are never as good as the books. Like playing volley – miss playing in a league. Haven’t golfed or played tennis in a while, but enjoy them both! Love the serenity of a quiet walk and finding some hidden treasure of nature. Better shared with someone who similarly appreciates the moment. Own my home and have learned the secrets of power tools. Ok, well not quite, but working on it. Taking pride in learning the “do it yourself” projects and finding my independence. Bought a chainsaw – I can do anything! I can even find my way around Home Depot and Menards. LOL!I love wearing heels, but not afraid to get in the dirt. Enjoy evenings at home with a home cooked meal and movie. Help make the meal and you score major brownie points! You can cook – even better!!! Love to get dressed up and go out too….museum, shows, concerts, comedy club, dancing…..options are really endless. The company is more important than the destination. Looking for romance, humor, the feeling of looking forward to the next date, bringing a smile to your face, knowing that look in your eyes, finding someone that I can’t wait to spend time with and they the same. Good luck in your search. Hmmm... not sure on this one.... hot coffee on a cold day. Really doing anything fun and laidback sounds great. No movies for 1st date. Need to be able to talk and get to know each other....that leaves a lot of possibities...

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  • Audrianna from Charleston | Woman | 50 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello there, I'm a very honest, easy goin n trusting person. I have a good sense of humor and you should too.I like to give n receive a lot of affection. I'm a big cuddler. I like to joke n kid around. I don't like to argue. I like to laugh n make others laugh.I like country, soft rock, the oldies, just about anything but rap. I'm not into games n would like to find someone who has some of the same interest. One who Is looking for a long term committed relationship. If you want to know more send me a message.Pls have a photo, we all know there has to be attraction between us too. Where we can talk n get to know one another.

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