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Carlena, 47
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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About Me

How do you describe what you are looking for and want? Tell the reader all about yourself and paint them a picture as to who you are, where you have been and where you want to go? Seems like allot like homework, lol. I believe there is a reason for everything. I have worked hard at my military career and raising my children. Now it's just me and my dog(Marley) What do I want? I want a best friend who loves to be outside doing whatever, mowing, gardening, on the beach, sitting in the swing, going for a walk, camping and the list could go on forever. I want to travel to places I've never been. Learn things I have never done(to golf). Eat food I have never tried, just so I can say I did. Just to live life to the fullest. To laugh until my stomach hurts and always have a smile on my face. A best friend to share all of this with and someone to be with, but a good teacher(with lots of patience if your going to teach me to golf) I think that sums it up pretty good. If you want to know more, *** I let you know. I am always open to dinner or a movie even if it is for only one date, if we hit it off and become good friends there will be more. One day at a time, The one thing I have learned about me is I have no type--no typical tall, dark and handsome description I'd give you to describe what I'm looking for. I love a man who is a deep thinker but has a happy, humorous personality. I'm very independent so someone who is confident is huge for me. I won't bother listing sincere, honest, considerate, thankful, thoughtful, and hey if you're physically fit that can't hurt either because does anyone want a lying, cheating rude partner. I'm very passionate about everything so cynical people crack me up and usually I will win you over because I do my best to see the best in everyone but if you're not excited about living, life, relationships and helping people we probably won't be a good match As far as the first date, I am not picky.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I have a great life just missing a super guy to enjoy life with.I'm laid back love to be active from yard work to home projects. Looking for a active guy who enjoys life to its fullest. Life is,way to short to stress the small stuff. I'm a goal setter with many goals in life looking for the same I'm loving and silly I desire a good sense of humor. I'm looking for my best friend for life.i will always support my man and be by his side and wish for the same in return. I strive to be the best I can be in everything I attempt in life. I love a challenge. If your over all the drama and want a happy simple life you just might be for me lol. Best of luck to all of us. l First date is something we both agree on and are comfortable with.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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