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Wei, 47
United States, Illinois, Charleston

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About Me

Time for an UPDATE: I am a lady. I need to be treated as such. It means that you are going to have to put some serious effort into the relationship before we make it to the bedroom. It doesn't mean that I'm afraid to get dirty or work hard. I work every day either on the job or at home. I am high mantentance. If we are in a relationship I expect to hear from you every day, even if its just a text. I expect that you will call or show up when you say you are going to. I will give you the same respect. I expect doors to be opened for me and your full attention during a date. The exception is children. I keep my cell phone handy so if my children need me. I expect that your children will be just as important to you. I will not get in the car with you until I feel comfortable. I won't tell you where I live either. I will meet you. I'm not trying to be rude but these are things you should know before you ask me out. If you are going to buy my dinner or pay for whatever we do and gas to get there you should know what you're getting into. This is the cost of dating me. Only you can decide if the price is too high.One more thing...If we are in a relationship I will only be dating you. If we are not in a relationship I will date other people. If that is a problem please do not ask me out.Also, I often stay friends with my exes. That's because I don't screw them over. For *** just updated my ex boyfriends profile. I wanted to say things that women want to know. I want him to find someone and be happy.Ok, now about me.....I'm looking for my best friend. Someone I can dream with, laugh with, explore with, and tell all my secrets to. I want to meet someone who after a while is sure that he can't live without me and I want to feel the same way about him. When he looks at me I want to be able to see the love in his eyes. I want to know that he adores me, and wants only me. A tall order, I know.I do love to be spoiled, but I love to spoil the people I care about also. Spoiling someone doesn't always mean spending money on them. Sometimes it's rubbing their feet after a long day at work (I do this often for my partner), picking flowers from the side of the road to show me that he was thinking of me. A "good morning" text is always nice. I want to be walked to my car, doors held, and kissed passionately. I want a man who will wrap his arms around me and tell me that everything will be alright. I need to know that when something goes wrong, or when I need something that he will handle it. I will do the same for him. We all need someone to depend on, even if all you can do is hold me while I cry.I tend to be attracted to tall, strong men, country boys, but not guys that dip.lol. A gentleman. I am a single mother. My 15 year old daughter lives with me. She comes first. I expect for your children to come first in your life also. I work with special needs adults; that's a big part of my life. Because this is an emotional job, I can't turn it off when I leave work. I worry about my clients like they're family.I go back and forth on the relatonship thing. I don't want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in one. To say I "belong" to someone. But one day a relationship will just happen. It's still takes work to keep it together, but one day you will realize that when the phone rings you hope it's that one certain person. Your best friend, the one who always listens, the one who's always there for you, the one who loves you even when you're not lovable.You can't choose who you fall in love with, it just happens. Staying in love doesn't just happen, it's a choice.I love to travel, explore the world, and my own back yard. For the first meeting, a cup of coffee/hot chocolate is fine. Hanging out in groups can be fun too. The very best date after we get to know and trust each other would be packing some snacks and a camera, and explore. I don’t need a fwb. I’m not a booty call. Be a friend first or don’t bother.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Adventure Mystery Basketball
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