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Jessia, 46
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I am a mother, sister, ex-wife, daughter, and a best friend. I am passionate, compassionate and loyal. Financially and mentally secure. I have been told that I can easily adapt to any situation which is a plus for me because I truly enjoy meeting all types of people and starting long lasting friendships.I believe in chemistry and am very romantic when in a relationship!! I love kissing and holding hands! I love the kind of 'feeling' when we are together and it seems like no one else is around and yet we could be surrounded by thousands of people, the look that melts and the touch that sends chills! CHEMISTRY is what can *** passion but ultimately I believe it is communication and the ability for both people to be honest and open about their feelings that is the glue and foundation of a real relationship! I think that two people can have similar values but, the two of you also have to agree on the priority of these values. God, love/spouse, family, healty life....good food and a great martini...just as an example..;)Running and walking are some things that I enjoy and try to do a couple times a week. I love anything outdoors in the summer. Not too much into camping but, I love to get up early on a warm sunny summer morning before anyone else is up and take a walk down by the beach. I am not really a winter/cold weather person although, I will spend time outside in the winter with the right person. I do have children and they are very important to me. Two are adults and out of the house and one still lives with me. I would like a man who believes not only in God but in God's Word. A man who is not afraid to admit when he is wrong and not afraid of a commitment. I am looking for a man who never forgets my birthday but conveniently never remembers my age;) I prefer to be in a long term, monogamous relationship. I am looking for ... a man who knows how to treat a lady, someone who is Secure, someone who is Emotionally Available (has moved on from the last relationship and doesn't compare everything we do to how they or she did it) and Emotionally Mature, hopefully you got all that out in highschool or college! I have a 24 year old son, a daughter who is 22, and 13 year old son. I would like someone who is mature enough to invest in a Long Term Relationship. Someone who is ready and willing to stand up for us as a couple. If you are still spending the Holidays with your ex wife "for the children", then I am not the girl for you. :) God Bless. I like going out, but don't want a guy who goes out to the bars with his buddies every Friday night! And, someone who knows how to communicate! It's not something you can learn from a book. Most of communication is seeking to understand what the other person is really saying, not just hearing what you want to hear and making assumptions from that! ;)Ars Amatoria

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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