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Felina, 48
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I love life, my children, my family, and my friends. I'm a very happy person who can have a good time wherever I go. I believe every situation is what you make of it! The true test of someone's character is not what happens to you in life, but how you choose to handle it. I am a very honest, trustworthy, loyal, generous, affectionate and loving person. I have a great sense of humor....what can I say, I'm perfect like everyone seems to be on dating sites! I am looking for someone that I connect with and we can start an honest relationship filled with laughter, communication and closeness. I am not interested in finding someone to seek to change them. I think to have a truly successful relationship with someone you have to accept all things about that person and vice versa! I love trying new things. I love anything to do with the water and being outside. I'm hoping to meet someone optimistic, with a great outlook on life. With two kids, two jobs, a house, dogs, etc., I have a very busy lifestyle and find it difficult to meet new people. So, I thought I would try this route because I'm curious where "40 somethings"! What can you really say in a paragraph about yourself, except that I think chemistry is really all that matters and if I could explain that I'd be a billionaire! Your profiles can match exactly and that doesn't mean a darn thing. In fact, most of the time opposites attract. It's just that feeling you get when you see someone. It can't be described, but we all know it and are here in search of it! The spark! I was a Navy submarine wife for 17 years, so I know how to be independent. That doesn't mean I don't want a man who holds my hand to lead me into a room and remembers to open my car door from time to time, etc. I also don't need a father figure, I already have the best dad in the world! And no, my children don't need a father either, they have a dad who loves them and lives nearby. I coached junior Olympic competitive gymnastics for 10 years and I really love working with kids, it's the greatest pleasure to coach kids and help them meet their goals! It's such a thrill. I really miss it, but I am thoroughly enjoying my free time! I love concerts, baseball games, pretty much any kind of social activity. I'm a big Yankees fan (sorry, but they do have the cutest players). I love cooking and entertaining, especially in the summer at my pool with friends and margaritas! Call me old fashioned, but I like it when the man plans the date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Skye from Centralia | Woman | 50 years old | Libra
    Skye

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I love living in S. Did I mention the weather? I am an independent, petite, active and creative. I have become very involved with a local ceramics studio where I not only make my own ceramics but also do glass fusing. I have also started teaching there just for fun. I never thought I would be teaching others to do this sort of thing. I am financial independent having retired from the music business several years ago. I'm looking for someone who I am always looking forward to seeing and who feels the same about me. I am pretty laid back. I enjoy going out to nice restaurants, but I am just as happy some days with a slice of pizza. I'm looking for someone who will be my lover but most of all my best friend. He is smart, good looking and has a good sense of humor. I tend to be attracted to physically fit, attractive men who take care of their appearance. He enjoys being outside. I want to be with someone who I can take care of, who will also take care of me. I enjoy being able to learn something new every day from my partner. Someone who is into music is definitely a plus. I worked in the music business for over 20 years . He will be able to may me laugh and also make me swoon.I worked in the music business for over 20 years. I used to go out to listen to music up to 5 nights a week. I can listen to just about everything. If I don't really like it, I just can't listen to it for too long. I am also a dog lover! I have two wonderful little dogs. Yogi and Boo Boo. If you can't love my dogs, then you can't be in a relationship with me. I love all dogs and most animals. Back to the person I'm looking for.... he's someone with whom there is a connection, commitment and trust. I want to be able to feel safe inside that person's arms and also when I away from him. I'm also very affectionate and passionate. I have also been described as adventurous. I am financial secure and he must be too. I am also a spiritual person. It can't hurt if he is also a spiritual person too.

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  • Deetta from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Pisces
    Deetta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm an easy going honest woman with a heart of gold. Love all animals, raised riding and reared more than my fair share of cows, sheep, chickens..etc... I don't subscribe to a political party as they are all about politics. Sure I can smooch some butt when needed, however; I would prefer just to get things accomplished because they are "RIGHT". If you are reading this now please respect the fact that I am not interested in making penpal buddies. Ideally, we should meet within a week or so if you find me attractive and you are real :) I am quick witted and can be extremely sarcastic without hurting anyone. I get along best with people who share these traits.I enjoy cycling most of the summer, love to kayak (do not have my own currently) and I hike year round. I also enjoy museums, trolling through shops and museums, going to plays, concerts in small venues, sight seeing and cuddling up on the sofa and relaxing.My ideal guy would be fit, funny (dry humor totally acceptable) and ready to find his woman (notice that was not plural). Also, he would be interested in meeting me face to face :) I spend many hours online writing lesson plans and for work in general. That being said I really would prefer not *** texting someone for weeks on end, thank you :)Finally, my dog is my buddy and not a status symbol. He needed rescuing and so did I :)If you want to get to know me, please ask me anything, I will answer honestly. Anything fun :)

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  • Raisa from Centralia | Woman | 50 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I don't know about you but I find this difficult. What do you say to get someone's attention? But not just ANYone's attention. The right one. That special one. You've got a 60 second window to communicate all the great things about you that your friends and family already know from years of experience. Add to that the cheesy phone *** never seem to highlight your 'best side'. I get it.So, I'll break the ice, as it were. I like gardening. Fine wine. Good beer. Cooking. Manners. People who know and appreciate their roots. People who know how to relax and laugh. And those who know when to pause for a solemn moment. I enjoy those who respect old people, love the furry people (read pets), and enjoy the little people (read children). I like to give back to the community whenever I can. I like to go to the farmers market and support/interact with the folks who nourish us. I love the idea of reconnecting with our community via charity work. I cherish the time when neighbors cared about each other and expressed interest in each others well being and place in the community. About me. I've been through a rough three years with my ex husband. I've managed to fight the urge to become a man-hating super diva. Don't get me wrong, I've got lots of diva going on. But hating is just not my style. I'm working towards being the best me I can become. I'm taking an active role in my health. I'm embracing my 'singleness'. I'm embarking on new adventures. I've started to sing...even though my cats have requested that I stop. In short, I'm a work in progress. You may pause briefly to take my measure. But be advised, I'll be different tomorrow. Catch me if you can.**AND For those of you who are "not looking for anything serious..." F*** you. Relationships are serious. Man up, already. If something is worth having then it's worth working for. If you're looking for easy then buy some porn and leave me be. Cheers Maybe just a short meeting for a drink. Let's see if we click. Let's see if we clash. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other without a lot of distractions (live bands, scantily clad waitresses, dancing clowns,etc).

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