SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Rochell
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I'd have to say I'm more "curvy" than "average" but that wasn't an option. I'm an independent woman but kind of an old fashioned gal too. I may initiate first contact if I'm feeling 'frisky', but my preference is a man who takes charge and initiates contact himself, so just because I don't contact first doesn't mean I'm not interested. But don't ask me to fall for you unless you plan to be there to catch me. I definitely don't consider myself an 'average' gal, I can be a little fiesty. My heart won't be given to just anyone, and I'm a little gun-shy so it might take me a while to get there, but when I do commit to someone, it's 150%. I've loved and lost; but I really do want to believe that there is still that magical, passionate, butterflies in my stomach, heart skip a beat when I hear your voice, knowing winks and stolen glances across a crowded room, can't wait to get my hands on you, kind of love out there for me somewhere. I'm growing cynical though, I haven't met anyone who could sweep me off my feet. Can you? I am happy and blessed and am passionate about life, I would like to have someone to share it with. Without question, the most important trait I’m looking for is good old fashioned honesty, and you can expect the same in return from me. And you must have the courage of your convictions! Aside from being a sports fanatic, I like to try/learn new things, enjoy good (intelligent) conversation, am not afraid of a heated (respectful) debate, and love to dance (especially to live music). I adore a good sense of humor, make me laugh and I'm yours, especially if you can laugh at yourself. Physical chemistry is also a must, but it's that 'connection' that will remain when looks fade.It would be fabulous to find someone who found my flaws endearing, and I his. I have high standards, I won't be satisfied until I find a man who can touch me; mind, body, and soul (notice the sequence there). I may be asking a lot and thereby narrowing the field, but in my book that's a good thing. I know what I want; but more importantly, I know what I don't want. If that means I never find what I'm looking for, so be it, but I won't settle for less. That said, I'm in NO rush. My life is great as is, I stay very busy, and finding a mate is not at the top of my priority list so sometimes I may be on here and sometimes not. I'm well aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and it's fine if I'm not yours, I'd rather be someone's shot of tequila anyway. ;)I find intelligence sexy, the occasional typo is to be expected but I appreciate well written profiles and e-mails. A "u" does not mean "you", it means someone is too lazy and disrespectful to type 2 extra characters. If tattoos are a deal breaker then I'm not the gal for you. Mine are very significant to me, only one is visible to the general public. If things progress, maybe you can go on a little scavenger hunt for the others. ;) If you would like a response from me, please have pictures, it's only fair. And guys, if all of your pic's are of you in sunglasses and a hat, do us gals a favor and post at least one without 'em. And I thought it should go without saying but apparently not; we really do not find shirtless bathroom mirror pic's attractive, most of us find them a turn-off.And bonus points if you're an asset in the Zombie Apocalypse. ;) A great date is more about the "who" than the "what", that being said, I appreciate creativity and uniqueness, but an acceptable first "meet" would be meeting for drinks at some place casual. A first "date" is a whole different story. ;)
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Raisa
Online
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I don't know about you but I find this difficult. What do you say to get someone's attention? But not just ANYone's attention. The right one. That special one. You've got a 60 second window to communicate all the great things about you that your friends and family already know from years of experience. Add to that the cheesy phone *** never seem to highlight your 'best side'. I get it.So, I'll break the ice, as it were. I like gardening. Fine wine. Good beer. Cooking. Manners. People who know and appreciate their roots. People who know how to relax and laugh. And those who know when to pause for a solemn moment. I enjoy those who respect old people, love the furry people (read pets), and enjoy the little people (read children). I like to give back to the community whenever I can. I like to go to the farmers market and support/interact with the folks who nourish us. I love the idea of reconnecting with our community via charity work. I cherish the time when neighbors cared about each other and expressed interest in each others well being and place in the community. About me. I've been through a rough three years with my ex husband. I've managed to fight the urge to become a man-hating super diva. Don't get me wrong, I've got lots of diva going on. But hating is just not my style. I'm working towards being the best me I can become. I'm taking an active role in my health. I'm embracing my 'singleness'. I'm embarking on new adventures. I've started to sing...even though my cats have requested that I stop. In short, I'm a work in progress. You may pause briefly to take my measure. But be advised, I'll be different tomorrow. Catch me if you can.**AND For those of you who are "not looking for anything serious..." F*** you. Relationships are serious. Man up, already. If something is worth having then it's worth working for. If you're looking for easy then buy some porn and leave me be. Cheers Maybe just a short meeting for a drink. Let's see if we click. Let's see if we clash. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other without a lot of distractions (live bands, scantily clad waitresses, dancing clowns,etc).
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Averie
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Honesty, respect and loyalty ~ is a MUST...I am interested in learning every day of my existance. Life is an open book. I love to meet new people, strike up conversations with strangers, use my sense of humor to make peoples day, and above all respect peoples individuality. I consider myself very free-spirited and open to learning new things, meeting new people, and going new places. I love bon-fires, hot sunny places, water, sand, outdoor festivals, motorcycling, boating,jet-sking, traveling, weekend get-a-ways, quaint little towns, exciting shopping experiences, dining at unusual restaurants, meeting interesting-unique indiviuals from other cultures and trying new adventures.. of all kinds. I am very organized & energetic, a social butterfly, as well as a bargain hunter- love to attend flea markets, auctions, and rummage sales and all sorts of festivals...I was in the antique resale business for nearly 18 years as a hobbie, Many other hobbies as well.. truely a multi-tasker.I find myself eager to get to know and understand people from all walks of life. I have tons of compassion for animals and the elderly, and anyone in need of help. I tend to over extend myself often and am always on the go. I love to shop, dress up,(co-owner of a clothing store for many years) enjoy entertaining others in my home, traveling and see the world, just a simple picnic lunch at a park on a blanket. A simple woman...who possesses morals, ethics and values. I am a news junkie and tend to need to know what is going on in this mixed up world. Hate reality Television, but love game shows and old shows from the 70's.I thrive on being a problem solver and am always open to suggestions and constructive criticism. I LOVE hats...of all kinds, get some weird looks sometimes, but I dont care, its' me....I am extremely independent & very self-sufficient. Come from a family of work-a-holics and perfectionsist, Not real unlikable virtures in my book...I have held down good jobs, always strive for a better way of life.Have had nothing handed to me in life, but am proud of who I am and my accomplishments. I am an extremely GENEROUS person ~I often find myself helping others who are less fortunate. Can't stand individuals who sap off the system or are poor parents and set poor examples for their children.- Took a buy-out from GMAD a few years back after 10 years ..Preparing for a State Board Test for Nursing Home Administration and then on to my next career choice in life. I try to live life to the fullest and treat others like I would like to be treated. My compassion for the elderly is a big part of who I am..Excellent Grandparents, with only the fondest of memories.I LOVE 70's music then 80's..not much for country but can handle it. Also LOVE hard rock.. Sort of an old school Rock-n-Roller.. Hate rap. Enjoy southern rock,Jazz, Blues, and seeing local bands & comedy shows. I am quite a talker and strike up a conversation rather easily. I have an quirky sense of humor and proudly display it. I love to laugh,and have a great time doing whatever the day may bring. I hate arguing, drama, control freaks, game players, liars, cheaters, and people who suck the happiness out of other's lives. I am looking for a great friendship, then getting to know someone special better. I have spent a great deal of my adult life in long-term relationships. No regrets and am friends with all the individuals I have spent years with. No children here, never been married, but plan to find that special person/man some day. I feel you cannot plan on finding something like that, if it is meant to be,...it will be....fate will tell.Being happy and learning everyday is a productive way of living and being. ... I find it important to have that special someone on your mind when you are apart. Someone who never goes to sleep mad, and wakes up happy..." You know you're in love when reality is better than your Dreams"...Robin :)**Enough about me...but that is pretty much who I feel I am putting keeping it succinct. Thanks for reading my profile... Meet and greet for a lunch, dinner or a drink or other beverage. Take it from there...I feel both parties can usually tell if there is any chemistry at that point. I have indeed made some great friends on here, and never mind meeting another! P.S. If you're not having any luck fishing, maybe you should change the bait??? Try ...Grub worms or Helgamites???...LOL