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Reatha, 48
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I'm not your typical conventional girl. I'm not obsessed with shopping, there's nothing that I want I'm happy with what I have. I'm well mannered and well spoken, more reserved and modest than I may appear. I don't like a lot of mush. Don't like to be smothered too much too soon. I truly like things that would interest guys more than girls. I'm not high maintenance but sexy just the same probably more so. I was told by a stranger, a woman who sees me every day I look just as good without makeup as I do with since I rush out without it in the a.m. That's the biggest compliment a woman can pay another woman : ) I'm a very introspective person and well educated thanks to my mom and dad and enjoy reading up on many different topics. I'm inquisitive, if I'm not familiar with something I look it up. My parents have gotten along together 49 years now and I realize how a man and woman should treat each other. I haven't gone through what most my age have so I don't have any drama. I'm very uncomplicated and luckily always have been. Having too many expectations of someone is very unrealistic. I do dislike arrogance, don't want a man who is wrapped up in an image or feels he is above anyone. I would like to meet a compassionate man who likes the company of kids, older people and pets as well. Being a child of the 70's & I try to keep it that way as much as I can. Get along best with a man who isn't hyper and doesn't have to be doing something all the time. I have religious belief and a conscience and would like a man who does as well. I feel it's important to have time to yourself as well as together to keep your sense of identity and appreciation for each other. Chemistry is either there or not, you can't make it happen. At the risk of being blatantly honest if you can't see yourself sexually with someone than it isn't going to work. To me intellectual chemistry is equally important because that is going to supersede everything else over time. I find a guy with a little boy charm who knows when to be a man very appealing. You don't have to be Superman, you can be Batman, he was always my favorite. I like to have fun and joke around, I'm easy to talk to and enjoy hearing about your interests as well. I'm very relaxed and not into questions, it's just not my nature. It's not that I'm not interested but I don't think it matters, things start from this point forward. I'm not a particular type, I'm comfortable no matter whether I'm at a cozy lounge or jukebox bar. I'm self-sufficient, my motto is if you want a job done right do it yourself. I'm very creative and see the artistic quality in things. I love summertime, the beach, spending time with family and friends. I have a lot of respect for and I'm close with my family and hope that you place importance on that in your own life as well. I enjoy all eras of music, more so classic rock and 80's pop. I'm most content at this age with myself and I try to see the best of a situation because most things aren't as bad as they seem. It doesn't matter where a first date takes place, more importantly is the company, you can be anywhere and have a good time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking American Irish Thai Crime Family & Kids Martial Arts
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    Joy

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi there. Thanks for looking at my profile. I'm a divorced mom of 2 great kids ***and ***They're my first priority. Sorry, but that's non-negotiable. I am, however, extremely talented in multi-tasking and have time to dedicate to a relationship.I'm of Italian descent and originally from NY, with a very sarcastic sense of humor. I'm warm, passionate, loving, honest, confident, generous, loyal and above all; always myself. I'm looking for a relationship with a man who understands the life of a working single mom. I take very good care of myself and am in the best shape of my life. My photos are very recent; haven't gained a pound. I love working out at the gym ***days a week), walking my yellow lab (almost everyday). I eat very healthy, but still enjoy my daily glass of wine and occasional dessert. My favorite foods are sushi, steak, and italian. I'm open to trying any restaurant and also like cooking at home. I recently bought golf clubs and am learning to play. My kids play and basically every man I meet, so I thought it was time.I'm interested in finding a man who wants to be in a relationship with one woman. I know what I'm looking for and don't plan on settling. I'm very happy on my own. I don't need a man, but would really like someone special in my life. I think we should learn something from every failed relationship. The following has resulted in some pretty rude responses from those offended by it. I apologize, but have been at this for awhile and really don't want to waste mine or anyone else's time. If you're not interested, I'd prefer it if you didn't respond.Please DO NOT contact me if:1) you're just here to play the field.2) you're not financially stable; you don't have to be wealthy, just stable; own your home, very little or no debt, have some sort of savings, can afford to send your kids to college and do some traveling (with me). Not looking for a "sugar daddy". I AM financially stable. I'd like to meet someone who I can enjoy life with and not expect me to pay for him. I do, however, believe that gentlemen should pay for dinner, drinks...3) you're dishonest in your profile (old photos).4) cheated on your wife (ever) or are not yet divorced.; (I'm that height in heels); are overweight and don't workout regularly.6) post photos of you holding a fish, sitting on a motorcycle, in your underwear, or taken by you in your bathroom mirror.7) you have an incurable std.8) you're in recovery of ANY addiction.Lastly, while I'm very flattered to receive *** you younger guys, please don't contact me if you're under the age of ***or over the age of 54). I great first date for me would be meeting at a nice restaurant with a bar for a glass of wine. . If things are going great, maybe we can order something to eat. I'm really not interested in meeting for coffee or for wings and beer (yes, I've been asked).

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  • Adelaida from Centralia | Woman | 47 years old | Aquarius
    Adelaida

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm a contemporary sort with a fairly opened mind. I have strong work ethic but have plenty of projects I work on in my spare time. I enjoy working with anything art related and enjoy taking in things of this nature locally and not-so-locally.I enjoy most music and am open to things I've never heard. I enjoy all live music and events.I love to laugh and have to spend time with someone who has a humorous nature and can roll with almost anything.I'm a naturally sexy middle-aged woman who takes good care of herself and looks young for her age. I'd like to meet someone who is and does the same for themselves. I spend time working out hard so I can hopefully enjoy many more years of health and happiness. In case you can't read between the lines, PLEASE BE PHYSICALLY FIT!!!!!Also, if you don't show pictures, please don't count on a response. I've shown you mine...I'd like to think that there are people out there who actually have time to date and who are sane enough to have a relationship. Relationships are a two-way street, therefore, if it's all about you, you obviously don't have room to include another. Please pass me by. Why does this seem like so much to ask for?

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  • Africah from Centralia | Woman | 50 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    About me: I’m 5’5 brown hair, blue eyes with an slender built. That covers the outside. On the inside I am honest, intelligent (so I’m told), open-minded, confident, a hard worker, and like to have fun. I am very active most all the time. I can’t sit at home and watch TV (I have no favorite shows because I don’t really know any) My goal in life is simply to enjoy it as much as possible and be happy, maybe I can find a way to make a difference in the world as well. I think I have a good sense of humor (but that is usually something others have to think). I love to laugh and enjoy good comedy. I am very affectionate and if we become close, you will know what I mean. .Enough about me, let’s talk about you. I am seeking the whole relationship experience. I would like to get to know you, become friends, then lovers (of course) and work (I’m realistic here) toward a long term relationship. I prefer a man who is comfortable in jeans and t-shirt as well as a suit.I’m pretty much looking for a person that enjoys things that I enjoy and is willing to try new things with me or even with out me. meet for coffee or a walk in a comfortable setting so we can get to know more about each other.

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