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Cyrstal, 46
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

WHY do men my age look so old? WHY do men my age NOT take care of themselves? WHY do people post old pictures? I was standing next to my last date and did not recognize him!!!!! DON'T think you will win her over with charm and she wont notice that extra 30 pounds you added around the middle! SHE WILL!Honesty, is important and a must!** I will not do what most women do and lie to you to boost your ego. Tell you your the best lover, you have a body like a Greek God, you have the biggest tool in the shed, ect. Men have said, women have told them these things, and when I don't see it they get upset at me, not for at the person who lied to them. ** Thanks ladies just be honest, if you can't don't say anything at all. YES I do believe in giving real, honest truthful compliments. I love being active, hiking biking, kayaking. I am fun out going and love meeting people. I have a strong personality , but still want the man to be the man, the protector while allowing me to have a voice and some independence. I am looking for a caring, kind man with depth and passion. Spirituality is very important to me. I wish to find a partner that I can relate to on a deeper level, and we can grow together.I enjoy reading books that make you think and strive to be a better person.I run a little, workout some and eat very healthy. ** I feel it is your obligation to stay as attractive as possible for your partner.** I take care of myself and looking for the same in my partner. Not a drinker or party party type, don't let the ink fool you, I had it well before I moved here.(I do have adult children that live in another state, and one independent 16 yr old here with me.) I recently created this profile, so please forgive my short intro.Please no games. Just looking to meet see if there is a connection. more later when I see if there is anyone who strikes my interest. I'm looking for someone whom would like to get to know me, not just a quick jump in the bed, you can find that on other sites.NOT into; The "cowboy" look/thing.Long hair on men.Hunting. Posing with dead animal picsThe stupid burnt orange attire, hook'em horns thing. If I saved you to Favorites it is because I plan to contact you after I fill this out. If you contact me before great! My profile is hidden because if not I will get 20 *** day that I will not be interested in. If you do contact me and I do not respond, please take that as a polite no thank you.Thank you for reading and best wishes in your search! Keep it simple, just meet say hello go from there...leave it open for more time if we like.PS:READ THIS!!!!!!!! PLEASE have current photos!!! I plan on meeting men that's why I am here. If you have old photos that is basically lying. What you looked like 1, 2, 4, or 10 years ago is NOT WHO YOU ARE TODAY! (I was on here one year ago and some have the same photos)BE HONEST, BE REAL. Thank you for understanding. :) If you read this and have current photos, add "The real me" to your message.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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